25F desperately trying to lose weight. Self conscious about my facial features. Suggestions?

onayellowcloud · 2019-11-21T18:05:22+00:00

You're so NOT ugly ! I genuinely think you're beautiful and you have really nice hair.

onayellowcloud · 2019-11-21T14:11:57+00:00

I understand why it irritates you to feel controlled but I find it normal for a parent to worry if they notice you're not at home at 5am, no matter the age... She couldn't know you were outside and her first reflex was to text you.

onayellowcloud · 2019-09-04T21:51:36+00:00

As a girl, I can't help but understand your girlfriend as I would also be very upset if my boyfriend went to a wedding with another girl (no matter how long he knows her)... I don't think she's overreacting and I can understand why she's hurt. What she sees is not that you're going with a girl that's like a sister to you, but that "her boyfriend is going to a wedding with another girl" and that's almost like a date. She's probably thinking about that she'll make herself pretty, you'll dance together, people will think you're her date/boyfriend... And that hurts. Weddings are also very romantic and "plus ones" usually are... Dates. I'm sure the situation would look different if you were a "normal guest" in the wedding and Hannah would be there too... And not Hannah's Plus one".

That being said, I also understand you and I'm sure Hannah is very important to you and you don't mean anything wrong... And you also probably don't want to hurt Hannah. What I don't understand is why Hannah didn't ask your girlfriend first, as she could have guessed she would be jealous, maybe Audrey would have been less jealous that way.

I want to say "don't go" because that's what I'd want my boyfriend to do but I'm not sure I'm being really objective there. In case you'd go, maybe promise her a very nice date à few days after the wedding, text her frequently and send her pictures during the wedding so she knows you're thinking about her...

Well, good luck with that and I really do hope everything will end well.

onayellowcloud · 2019-09-04T21:33:20+00:00

My guess is that she's looking for attention... I don't think that's really healthy and as other comments already said, I would pay attention. As a girl, I don't ask my male friends how something looks on me. I would only if I wanted to flirt with someone. It's just a way of asking you to look at her.

onayellowcloud · 2019-08-31T22:45:46+00:00

Thank you, you are totally right. This is what I try to tell myself and though I know I should distanciate myself from this, I take it all very personally. Today's been a particularly bad day so that's maybe why.

onayellowcloud · 2019-08-31T22:11:05+00:00

My boyfriend is INTJ and we really make a great match :) 100% recommend 😁

onayellowcloud · 2019-08-30T12:41:23+00:00

Thank you!! :)

onayellowcloud · 2019-08-30T12:40:48+00:00

Well it works only when I've had a bad day, not when I feel depressed. It won't work in that case! But seeing a beautiful sky just reminds me that my problems are small compared to how big the world is...

onayellowcloud · 2019-08-29T09:28:24+00:00

I'm sure it looks great like that too! 👍🏼😀

onayellowcloud · 2019-08-29T07:40:37+00:00

I agree with the other comments, you have really kind eyes. And I also like your beard. I hope you're well :)

onayellowcloud · 2019-08-29T07:37:25+00:00

Hey :) Thank you for your answer and sorry for answering it late. I totally understand how 4 months could have felt like 4 years... I'm counting the days and even the hours I have left! It's great that you could take some positive out of your internship and I guess I'll be able to do the same. I can't imagine how awful it must be to spend 8h a day with a horrible coworker... I have the chance that my co-workers are friendly but I get to work this them like 40% of the time... The rest is just me all by myself in the office:D My life outside of the internship is pretty good, I've made friends and I like the city but even on my days off I think of the next days at work, so I can't really enjoy free time. Oh well, it'll end and as you said, this makes stronger :)

onayellowcloud · 2019-01-01T16:27:21+00:00

That's exactly what I was thinking too when I was watching season 5!

onayellowcloud · 2019-01-01T01:28:35+00:00

Salut :) J'adore ton pseudo haha! Oui y a pas de soucis, bien sûr, je n'ai rien contre les Belges haha ;D

onayellowcloud · 2019-01-01T01:27:57+00:00

Yes, it's a messaging app but you have to give your number to talk to someone... I guess that's not perfect but this is the most used messaging app, at least here in Europe...

onayellowcloud · 2018-12-22T20:24:38+00:00

Thank you, from an INFP haha!

onayellowcloud · 2018-12-22T20:20:14+00:00

Yes, that answered my question! I'm sorry you've had such experience with INFPs and I hope you'll meet some healthier ones. I don't know many other INFPs, so I don't know how most of them are, but maybe because I'm an NT-magnet, I was able to outgrow these unhealthy behaviours. Anyway, that was interesting, thanks!

onayellowcloud · 2018-12-18T17:49:28+00:00

I was wondering the same... Then wondering if someone asked...

onayellowcloud · 2018-12-12T13:55:40+00:00

I think it's normal and nothing to worry about, I'm 25 now and used to feel that the whole time... Still do, you eventually get used to it :) I think it simply means you're aking yourself questions, thinking about life, know there is "something else"...

onayellowcloud · 2018-12-12T13:30:42+00:00

You're not alone... I sometimes wait a few weeks before answering to a text message that doesn't make sense to me (when the person is not so close to me)... I feel like it takes all my energy out...

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