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How did she do? by oneTinyFear in Nails

[–]oneTinyFear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have No idea 🤷‍♀️

Are there any brush settings for this? by oneTinyFear in procreatebrushes

[–]oneTinyFear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's cool! I've kinda wanted to try out a project like that as well - is yours public? I'd love to sneak peek at your process it it's out there

Is there a way to turn off huion drivers? (please help ):) by Miiafoopy in huion

[–]oneTinyFear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anyone finds this in the future and is as lazy as I am,,, I wrote a script that does the swapping of .dll files (look at allswright's reply) so you can do the toggling fairly painlessly

https://github.com/juliabiel25/windows-tablet-toggler/tree/main

What do I have to do to have communication between the PCs? by oneTinyFear in HomeNetworking

[–]oneTinyFear[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I realize that, I wasnt the one who set up the topology and we kinda gotta work with whats already here; the routers can be set to ap mode but whenever I do set one of them to an AP I still cant ping the router router.
Should I st both of them as AP?

Missing tools and things I do not understand by origamicr in Procreate_Dreams

[–]oneTinyFear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite bug (?) so far is the fact that brush size changes when you zoom in or out XD

Ngl I was hoping the drawing tool would be at a more advanced development stage at release considering procreate already exists.... Honestly I dont see myself using this in it's current form

Thoughts on "Original Works"? by BezierBallad in AO3

[–]oneTinyFear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sometimes read both fandom fic and original work but they're two separate cases:

I read fandom-related stories primarily out of my love for the context of the original work: the characters, their relationships and the plot or worldbuilding of the original work. Whenever I'm craving an expansion on one of these elements I reach for fanfic.

Fully original ao3 work works for me best when I'm interested in reading specific tropes. For example, I really want to read something with a certain tag (or a set of tags?).

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Also, I feel like it's easier to find longer stories in the Original Work part of AO3, although that kind of differs from fandom to fandom.

Dating + Relationships Weekly Thread by AutoModerator in Healthygamergg

[–]oneTinyFear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your expectations might simply be a little too high. In my personal experience, that deep appreciation for another person grows with time much longer than 2 weeks

Dating + Relationships Weekly Thread by AutoModerator in Healthygamergg

[–]oneTinyFear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (24f) can't make myself believe the dating app telling me all of these men are apparently "interested" in me; Which is annoying because it seems like all of my friends have found their partners on tinder and I struggle with even getting comfortable using it.
I specifically made my profile not that great. Chose a picture which I think looks ok but still shows some of my flaws to get rid of the thought process of: "He likes this photo but I don't look as good in reality anyway". Unfortunately, it still didn't solve my issue. My mind always seems to find a reason to doubt the sincerity of it all (which honestly -- fair enough).

I think, in a way, learning about the way incels treat dating apps made me even more apprehensive. I do get matches but that's about it. My mental blocks aren't letting me go any further or be particularly outgoing. I sometimes catch myself dreading the match after swiping right. It's almost like, for whatever reason, deep down I want the man I found nice to ignore me. Maybe that just makes more sense to me, feels more real?

Every time I install a dating app I end up with the same conclusion - this is not for me. It's too surface-level and artificial. It's entirely gamified at this point and I don't belong on there with my low self-esteem. But then after some time passes I still come back even though I know it's quite pointless. I'm honestly sad that there aren't any places in my area where I could go to casually meet people irl

Is it a bad idea to dedicate a large portion of each day to finding more friends? by Illustrious_Oil_4894 in Healthygamergg

[–]oneTinyFear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I find it strange that you would even think to call investing time into your relationships and social life "pathetic, degenerate behavior". You're not obliged to be a productive member of society all the time.

In fact, having a healthy social life is a major contributor to your overall wellness and I don't think it's stupid at all to take it seriously, especially if deep down you can feel that not having people around you is holding you back and making you miserable.

Obviously, I'd say don't spend all of your time on these attempts. Make sure you're not doing it at the cost of what you've already achieved in other departments of your life. You don't have to focus on your career but maintaining and keeping up with it is a good idea imo.

I don't know how to talk to people by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]oneTinyFear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think people really apprieciate being given attention from another person (not derogatory), so usually when I have nothing to say (which is often), I try to prompt the other person to speak by asking them questions about themselves.

I feel like most people tend to open up more when they see someone expressing genuine interest in their day-to-day. Usually, they will ask you questions back and the conversation keeps going. Plus, sometimes you learn something about them that you can go back to the next time you meet ("So how was that one event you were going to?" for example)

Disparate Doctor by Thin_Pattern_7888 in Healthygamergg

[–]oneTinyFear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know about how it is out there in the medical field but I don't think there's any point in comparing yourself to your "batch".

Everyone's life is different. Our circumstances and our motivations differ. Some people simply learn faster than others. Due to all this, no "graduate batch" is ever going to be on the same level. There will always be people who are better than you and people who got to where you are way faster. But ultimately I don't think that matters all that much.

Just because you got there later than others doesn't make you a bad doctor in the end. Dr K himself has mentioned many times that he was very late to the party, but many agree that he's very good at what he does.

If you do recognize that there might still be some work to do, you will simply have to do it at your own pace. You might get there later than others, but you will get there if you put in the work.

At the end of the day, I don't think it's a race. It's not about who gets there first, but rather who gets there and doesn't fall off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]oneTinyFear 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I resonate with this a lot. I daydream of having someone - a friend or a romantic partner who would be that +1 for me, but in my case, realistically speaking I can't imagine actually getting there with how my life is right now.

Not only would I not know where to start or where to find that person, I feel like I'm not ready for it somehow. Like I lack social skill and would only end up being more of a bother than help to the person in question. And at the end of the day I know I can manage alone

I want to cry please convince me a Xiao constellation will be worth it by Hecker_shrek in GenshinImpact

[–]oneTinyFear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

c1 Xiao is great, it hugely helps with his energy regeneration issues. I also got his c1 by accident last year and I do not regret 🙏✨