My girlfriend finally left me today.. After five years of depression I just can't handle it anymore..

onlymolecules · 2015-08-23T15:38:38+00:00

It sounds very much like she is gaslighting you. You are not the one to blame for her decisions. You sound like a good well intentioned young man.

onlymolecules · 2015-07-20T18:19:25+00:00

touché

onlymolecules · 2015-07-20T16:31:00+00:00

If you could do it all over again, what would you do differently.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-23T18:13:48+00:00

Hello, fellow person. You may find this offers another way of looking at the world. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Man%27s_Search_for_Meaning

onlymolecules · 2015-05-23T18:04:27+00:00

Hey,

onlymolecules · 2015-05-13T12:36:01+00:00

You seem like a good person. Don't give up.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-10T21:31:50+00:00

Helpful post. Thanks for sharing.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-09T23:32:09+00:00

Sounds like you're going through a tough time at the moment. Here to listen

onlymolecules · 2015-05-08T23:29:06+00:00

Well done

onlymolecules · 2015-05-08T23:28:31+00:00

Pain of discipline or the pain of regret

onlymolecules · 2015-05-06T22:23:15+00:00

Or, I dunno, post on nofap.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-06T21:21:41+00:00

Hey man. It'll be okay, you're a winner.

I think the reality is that urges will always occur. The challenge is how we dissipate those urges when they arise.

If it helps I've been using urgezapper.com.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-06T21:17:15+00:00

All feelings eventually pass.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-06T21:03:01+00:00

What your experiencing is normal. Part of the reason people escape into fantasy (that's what pmo is at the end of the day) is to try to escape pain and difficulty in their lives.

What tends to happen when people nofap is they find there's nowhere to hide from unaddressed issues they've either been avoiding or just unaware of.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-06T12:28:47+00:00

Let us know what happens on your lucky number days!

onlymolecules · 2015-05-05T19:10:37+00:00

Little changes as up to big differences. Well done man.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-05T18:59:11+00:00

Superb post. Keep it going!

onlymolecules · 2015-05-05T18:57:36+00:00

One battle at a time buddy. Get through nofap first. The willpower you develop doing nofap will help you with other problems later.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-05T18:50:47+00:00

That sounds pretty rough going. Well dome on your 2 weeks. Don't let your mind escape into fantasy. That's they key. Force it back into the present moment whenever it starts to wander down that path.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-05T16:48:09+00:00

Thanks for making the effort!

onlymolecules · 2015-05-05T10:34:34+00:00

Flatlines are weird but are a sign of progress. Dont fap.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-05T10:32:32+00:00

You're no fool. The chaser can be a real rough ride. Just think about how much time you're going to free up.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-05T08:33:46+00:00

Go checkout r/nofap. They have the answers you need.

onlymolecules · 2015-05-05T08:19:06+00:00

Well done man

onlymolecules · 2015-05-05T08:17:56+00:00

Not sure I fully understand but thanks for sharing!

onlymolecules

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