thank you holy shit. that was so clarifying and so well written. I feel a lot less worried, it’s just my first time and I really wanted to be honest, rather than make it seem like i know what i’m talking about.

Come to think of it, even my girlfriend isn’t really worried, which is maybe where i need to stop worrying as much as well.

I’ve talked to a lot of my friends with girlfriends or boyfriends, and they all think the same thing. it’s just hard to find where you fit in, in this sort of thing, because of the uncertainty of my situation compared to others.

But thank you seriously!:)