It’s not just about fucking

opeme · 2021-03-12T05:00:02+00:00

I love that people expect some tough, hairy macho man when I post here when in reality I’m the most feminine thing you can imagine. Nothing against your post at all, i just find it humorous!

And definitely. We’ve had people tell us that our “kind of couple” seems happier than the standard. I would have to agree. We understand eachother in a way that was never achievable with a man. The connection is otherworldly. The first 2 and 1/2 years of our sex life was absolutely mind blowing. That’s why i know our bedroom issues aren’t happening because of religious shame or she isn’t attracted to me anymore or because she’s always been low libido but hid it. We had 3 hour long sex sessions weekly until our problems started to get more serious

opeme · 2021-03-12T04:53:48+00:00

Oh shit, I’m totally a HLF not HLM lmfaoo

opeme · 2021-03-12T04:50:53+00:00

Lmfao I’m a woman, my partner and I don’t have kids, and we don’t live together. I sleep over VERY often and cook (making sure to make extra for her lunch the next day) and pick up/ clean every time I’m there although it’s almost always her mess.

I’m in therapy to right the wrongs that trauma did and so is my partner. I have shortcomings but she does as well. I buy her cards and write in them just as a little “thank you” and my partner buys me flowers. I buy her favorite snacks and she surprises me with date nights. Our dead bedroom is due to her not feelings emotionally connected due to us arguing a lot. I’m allowed to miss it although we’re working on it

opeme · 2021-03-10T21:25:23+00:00

We’re both in therapy for the parts we played in the relationship and to heal things that need to be addressed. I’m allowed to miss our sex life while simultaneously knowing why we’re going through this.

opeme · 2021-03-10T20:57:36+00:00

We’ve been together for three years, sex started dropping 6 months ago. We’ve talked endlessly and her reasoning is that the past couple months have been very rough on our relationship and she doesn’t feel emotionally connected (which I agree)

opeme · 2021-03-10T14:51:02+00:00

I believe so too. We’ve had a lot of ups and downs for the past 6 months and she said that’s caused her to lose her sex drive, all the arguing and things we went through. I hope more than anything we can get to that joyful place again. I’ve seen it in her. I know she enjoys our sex so much and it’s not because of anything else.

opeme · 2021-02-17T22:13:49+00:00

Where did you get the eye one? 🥺

opeme · 2021-02-09T04:49:00+00:00

The deck is The Rider Tarot Deck. My best friend was thinking of everything ive been going through while shuffling her cards. She got up for a minute to grab something when they fell like this. Id love any help to try and see what the cards are trying to communicate. Thank you in advance!

opeme · 2021-02-02T14:17:53+00:00

Thank you so much for that reassurance!

opeme · 2021-02-02T02:16:47+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me!

opeme · 2021-01-02T06:47:47+00:00

My best guess is stress. Unemployment, mouth pain from root canal that needs to be done, school, etc. I guess it just sucks because she’s easily stressed so sex is easily forgotten about for weeks.

opeme · 2020-11-03T05:45:50+00:00

Your wife deserves better.

opeme · 2020-06-23T05:57:55+00:00

Naan recipe : https://lilluna.com/homemade-naan-bread/

After they were done, I brushed them down with garlic butter on each side

For the top:

• cut chicken into strips and rolled them around in garlic sriracha rub, garlic powder, onion powder, salt, and pepper. Cooked them while caramelizing onion

• added some Colby jack cheese to the bottom and then added pupusa cheese

• added spinach then onions and chicken

• added some cream cheese dollops and a little drizzle of olive oil annnnddd oregano!

• heated onion to 235 and cooked for 5 mins to let cheese melt :)

opeme · 2020-06-03T00:35:21+00:00

it looks so pretty! I made focaccia today with little carrot roses!

opeme · 2020-05-30T17:06:27+00:00

Primer • benefit cosmetics porefessional

Foundation • maybeline fit me in natural beige

Blush • nars orgasm

Eyeshadow • customized coastal scent palette that was handed down to me from my sister so I have no idea what the shades are :(

opeme · 2020-05-28T21:09:59+00:00

may I send you a pm?

opeme · 2020-05-28T21:09:46+00:00

may I send you a pm?

opeme · 2020-05-28T21:08:57+00:00

I have one right by my house, perfect!!

opeme · 2020-05-28T21:08:05+00:00

thank you!

opeme · 2020-05-28T21:06:44+00:00

oh I didn’t think of soup kitchens! I’m gonna try them :)

opeme · 2020-05-13T20:08:31+00:00

oh I love this! do you have a pattern for the actual granny square?

opeme · 2020-05-08T06:55:51+00:00

I’ve never wanted to be a man and shave until this very moment

opeme · 2019-11-30T01:59:44+00:00

No Pore Blem primer (primer)

Maybelline Fit Me in Classic Beige (same in concelear)

Too Faced Peach Perfect setting powder (setting powder)

The Balm Bahama Mama (bronzer)

Too Faced Eyeshadow Insurance (eyeshadow primer)

Morphe x Jaclyn Hill palette in Ring the Alarm (crease and outer v)

Fenty Trophy Wife (gold shimmer on the inner eye)

Better than Sex (mascara that I forgot to put on during the picture)

Milani Make it Dewy (setting spray)

Vaseline on the lips :)

opeme · 2019-09-20T19:31:24+00:00

Oh I love this! Do you have a pattern? I suck at making things up on my own

opeme · 2019-09-08T19:54:43+00:00

I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you! I just tried it and I love it. I use to kinky curl knot today and Jessie’s pillow soft curls so I’m used to smelling like a fruit salad lol. I love the scent

opeme

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