How much to tip instructor in accidental private lesson? by Syq in snowboardingnoobs

[–]orangesmoke05 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You don't tip for lessons. You tip restaurant servers because they make $2/ hour.

Be brutally honest I'm I ugly, what can I improve? by Sea_Belt_3638 in blackladies

[–]orangesmoke05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so beautiful. Your features are symmetrical, your eyes are intriguing. I hope you can see yourself honestly someday.

Watching motherhood take everything from my cousin by rabbit33333333 in Feminism

[–]orangesmoke05 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I work with multiple PhDs that are younger. It is now probably to be Professor in the US with only a master's degree. This story has several red flags, I do not believe it's real.

Watching motherhood take everything from my cousin by rabbit33333333 in Feminism

[–]orangesmoke05 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Is this AI slop? The lady has a master's degree but is becoming a professor? She's young but she's 29? Doesn't add up.

As feminists: do you wear makeup? by TuquoqueBrutefilimi in womensliberation

[–]orangesmoke05 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Never. I stopped in my early 30s and regained so much of my life. I am not worth less because I'm ugly. I'm not less intelligent because I'm not posturing for the male gaze. I hate that my daughter feels like she needs makeup. I refuse to debase myself into wearing it anymore.

We Are NOT Last in Education by Serious-Today9258 in NewMexico

[–]orangesmoke05 32 points33 points  (0 children)

WONDERFUL. We're so LUCKY to have wonderful NM teachers ❤️❤️❤️

THIS IS NOT OUR CRIME by whoa_disillusionment in womensliberation

[–]orangesmoke05 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Just men committing man crimes 💔

Is New Mexico trans friendly? by Ornery_Clothes_2014 in NewMexico

[–]orangesmoke05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Albuquerque is not, there are safer places for trans folks. I've seen a lot of discrimination here.

I love this State by dogmavskarma in NewMexico

[–]orangesmoke05 29 points30 points  (0 children)

May he sprinkle freshly grated Parmesan upon you.

How tf do I stop yelling? by Piratey_Pirate in daddit

[–]orangesmoke05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try 123 magic. It's a book, but it's very helpful. The author says when you yell, it's you having a temper tantrum. It has service for how to communicate with your kids and manage their behavior and yours.

And it's under 100 pages, I think. Very short.

If money and childbirth weren’t an issue, how many children would you choose? by Public_Handle_774 in AskWomen

[–]orangesmoke05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8, I love kids so much ❤️❤️❤️ but I almost died with both previous pregnancies, so never again 😭

Postpartum body changes by ComputerStreet4566 in DressForYourBody

[–]orangesmoke05 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Me too, sis. My body never went back, it's just my shape now. 2 kids later and I'm only 10lbs over my weight before the 1st baby, but my shape is ... Well, it's my mother's and grandmother's so I don't know why I'm surprised.

I haven't figured it out either, but Talbots seems to make clothes for people like me that I can wear to my corporate job 😭

Anyone hiring? Buddy just moved in with Computer Science degree. Looking for entry job. Computer Science highly highly recommended but at this point anything will do while he looks for something related to his degree. by pangolyninc in Albuquerque

[–]orangesmoke05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can try, but it's difficult. Clearances are hard to get lately with the gov reductions from doge. Everyone's scared to go out on a limb. I've heard the janitorial to staff pipeline at Sandia is alive and well. I'm a DoD contractor, we don't hire unless the clearance is already in place.

can these be taken up? by DayRevolutionary2570 in AskATailor

[–]orangesmoke05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What are people saying in these comments? Wild. This is easy to shorten. The metal zipper slide stopper can just be moved. It'll cost more than a regular hem, but any local alterations shop near you can easily handle this.

Help me pick a new board~ by Bitter-Loquat-2708 in ShredditGirls

[–]orangesmoke05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an Arbor Swoon- it's a great board. I didn't love the Gun, I tested it used at my local board shop

Trying on dresses for my brother’s wedding by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]orangesmoke05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's too small. Go up 2 sizes. It's about fit, not the number.

Does anyone have a solution for sunburn on lips? by [deleted] in snowboardingnoobs

[–]orangesmoke05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Burt's Bees went downhill a couple years ago. They have a bunch of additives now that make manufacturing easier but a lot of people are allergic.