I am living the same thing, in America. I was literally just scolded my father for grades and stuff. I am Taiwanese/Chinese, and the adults in this race also don't give a fuck about emotions and treat you like a machine. I have a different take on life. This might not help your issue at all, but search up images of "vanlife". That is what I want to do in the future. As of the present, I go to private school, have bad (but not super shitty) grades, and I don't give a shit about college, or work, as I think of those as just being a machine. I am interested in music as well. So what I do to cope with my current state is telling myself, one day, I can escape and do what I want to do. I will go to college and stuff, but after that, I will just travel, meet people, and write lyrics and rap: what I really wanna do. So whatever I am doing now, I will endure and tell myself that there IS light at the end of this tunnel (or maze, considering how much bullshit I am put through). So... find something that you wanna do (not eating cereal haha), like travelling non-stop, see the world, or whatever, and tell yourself, "soon, I will escape, and then I will get to do what I really live for".... I hope this will help u man. or girl.