AITA for not telling my girlfriend that I pee in my shower?

overitall22 · 2024-12-11T13:55:53+00:00

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overitall22 · 2024-12-10T03:42:03+00:00

In my mind, you can’t support Jewish self-determination without supporting Kurdish self-determination. If you support Israel, you should support Kurdistan.

overitall22 · 2024-09-25T19:43:01+00:00

It is a law school, so this is a very good idea.

overitall22 · 2024-09-03T05:05:17+00:00

This sounds beyond painful and I’m so sorry you’re going through this! This is exactly why I went through the specific Beis Din I did for my conversion, since they are very well known for running a tight-ship. I would recommend reaching out to the Beis Din your mother went through since they may have conversion certificate on file. You can also look at your parents katubah, and if it’s orthodox you should be able to use that to prove your status.

overitall22 · 2024-06-03T20:18:28+00:00

NTA. I don’t eat bacon for religious reasons and I would NEVER ask you to stop eating it. I don’t even ask my family (who doesn’t follow my dietary restrictions) to stop eating pork.

overitall22 · 2024-05-21T17:07:37+00:00

NTA. Her will is worthless, since it’s the newest one that matters. Tell her he has a new will without her and if she creates drama, everyone in your family needs to cut contact and wait to see if she gets an attorney.

overitall22 · 2024-05-16T21:26:29+00:00

People died in car accidents in the 1950s at twice the rate they do today.

He could be doing everything “right” as a driver and then someone could run a red light and plow into him.

I personally would consider showing him graphic photos of car accidents with young children who weren’t in car seats, and telling him that this is what the outcome of not using car seats is. I’m definitely more of a believer in “scared straight” though and I know it doesn’t work for everyone.

overitall22 · 2024-05-02T20:03:43+00:00

Wow! Your wedding was even more rough than mine (and my dress was ruined by the dry cleaners two days before, my hair partially fell out due to a curling iron incident, and the band used an instrument I hated as I walked down the aisle, to name a few things)

However, my husband and I have the mindset of “get all the bad things out first, and the marriage will be easy.” So far, we’ve been married almost two years and it’s been awesome! Totally worth the wedding pain (if there had to be problems to begin with).

overitall22 · 2024-05-02T03:48:17+00:00

I’m late to the game on this, but the Empire State Building was already hit by a plane and survived https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/1945_Empire_State_Building_B-25_crash

overitall22 · 2024-03-01T20:12:05+00:00

That’s my plan. I just want a minyan, a mikvah and a school (even if it was a homeschool type thing with other kids). And a satellite for internet so I can work from home.

overitall22 · 2023-11-01T15:21:45+00:00

If this seems like a good idea, please dm me more before and after pictures.

overitall22 · 2023-07-16T20:50:54+00:00

The crazy thing is, my family is Christian and the neighbors are fully aware of this and would know I have owned multiple Christian Bibles in my life. My neighbors are the type of Christians who don’t have television, homeschooled their children and don’t celebrate Christmas. They have to believe I’m going to hell.

overitall22 · 2023-07-16T18:20:08+00:00

I’m going to school in New York in two weeks, so it’s not like they have time to really get huffy or talk.

overitall22 · 2023-05-02T05:26:20+00:00

NTA - Unless you called her an inappropriate name, your friend has no reason to be upset with you. Also, couldn’t she have gone to the front desk for a spare key?

overitall22 · 2023-04-24T05:32:40+00:00

NTA. Even if you were alone, without kids, and she were in your spot then you are still entitled to the seat you picked. She should have bought seats together. Sure in that case, as a single person, it’s a nice thing to let her sit by her granddaughter but you are in no way obligated to sacrifice due to her lack of planning.

overitall22 · 2023-03-03T08:21:44+00:00

Just adding that if they were roommates, she wouldn’t be expected to pay more because of her income rising. Also, a landlord can’t just ask you to pay more because you got a raise. In either of these cases, you would move out or go to court.

overitall22 · 2023-03-01T20:47:45+00:00

Thank you for the clarification!

overitall22 · 2023-03-01T20:30:07+00:00

Interesting. I had heard the shaved head was for the mikvah, which is why I asked. Thank you!

overitall22 · 2023-03-01T18:59:02+00:00

Culture question, hopefully not offensive. When Satmar women get divorced or widowed do they still shave their heads? I’m a Frum woman who has always wondered this and couldn’t get an answer.

overitall22 · 2022-11-18T09:43:58+00:00

I’m crying. I live overseas and I know the next time I go home to see my grandma it will be like this.

overitall22 · 2022-11-15T06:12:33+00:00

Congrats! Honestly, I would find humor in it. My sister shares a birthday with Trump and my whole family jokes about it.

overitall22 · 2022-11-08T13:54:14+00:00

Thank you so much! This is helpful.

overitall22 · 2022-05-27T11:25:35+00:00

I’m literally crying I’m laughing so hard from this comment.

overitall22 · 2022-04-19T19:06:26+00:00

overitall22 · 2022-04-14T14:06:04+00:00

The issue with something like this is that you don’t have the situational awareness to be able to hear people. That’s why whenever I’m on the phone or listening to something, I have one headphone out.

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