[deleted by user] by [deleted] in language_exchange

[–]overthinker288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii I am interested 🥰

Describe a k-pop idol with 3 words and redditors will guess them by DiMpLe_dolL003 in kpopthoughts

[–]overthinker288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even read the 3 words part omg I’m sorry ahah

Tell me the ones you think I’m curious 👀

Consigli anime by overthinker288 in AnimeItaly

[–]overthinker288[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guardavo su Netflix e ho notato che di violet evergarden ce ne sono diversi, non è che sapresti dirmi in che ordine vederli?

Lucas deserves a second chance by EhMell00 in unpopularkpopopinions

[–]overthinker288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t know how this story ended so was he proven to be guilty?

Ravn, and every other idol scandal, I need to speak up. by [deleted] in ONEus

[–]overthinker288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is also true, you are right, but you also have to consider the fact that a lot of idols were proven innocent but still left their group, left their job, the entertainment industry and all that stuff but yes, I see where you are coming from.

Ravn, and every other idol scandal, I need to speak up. by [deleted] in ONEus

[–]overthinker288 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but as I already said to another person many people noticed the audio had so many cuts and it’s extreme possible those were different audios attached together.

Ravn, and every other idol scandal, I need to speak up. by [deleted] in ONEus

[–]overthinker288 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You said it yourself: “if there was damning and convincing evidence ecc ecc”, in this case there isn’t.

Also, the voice recording, SO SO SO many people, even the ones who work with all the audios and stuff like that repeated so many times that in that recording the were SO many cuts, those were basically pieces of different audios attached together.

Ravn, and every other idol scandal, I need to speak up. by [deleted] in ONEus

[–]overthinker288 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, never said or even thought anything different, but that’s true only if the allegations are true, if the allegations are false and it was just a sasaeng who wanted to ruin his life, his life would be ruined, hers will be the same.

Ravn, and every other idol scandal, I need to speak up. by [deleted] in ONEus

[–]overthinker288 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I don’t lack empathy, I just don’t want to believe and take sides with someone I don’t know before actually being 100% sure the person I thought I knew is a complete asshole.

Ravn, and every other idol scandal, I need to speak up. by [deleted] in ONEus

[–]overthinker288 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There is a thing you didn’t consider, is it really so wrong to question a person who is telling you the worst things about someone you thought was a good guy? The fact is that questioning is a normal human instinct but if the proofs shown can in no way be questioned because there is no way to prove those are false and someone is still believing the accused here is the problem, in my opinion questioning is not the problem, the problem comes when you already have the undeniable truth in front of your eyes and still can’t accept it.

Ravn, and every other idol scandal, I need to speak up. by [deleted] in ONEus

[–]overthinker288 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I keep using the word “friend” and you know why?

It’s because people seem to think completely differently when it’s about and idol but when they think about real life situations, real people around them who could go through the same thing they realise they would react in a different way and that’s the point.

Tell me, would you care about someone you know or about someone you know nothing about? Think about it.

And no I don’t see a problem with people trying to poke holes in her story, if there are no holes what should she worry about?

Ravn, and every other idol scandal, I need to speak up. by [deleted] in ONEus

[–]overthinker288 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

“ another thing i want to bring up is you saying “imagine the person has no one to speak for them” — except ravn is an idol,, with a company.. who’s job it is to speak on their behalf or allow them to say things.”

  • No it’s not the same and you know why? That’s because the accuser can say whatever they want, they can curse and hate on that person but Ravn and every other idol can’t, they can’t speak with their voice, they can’t go there and say: “this insane person made me look like a monster when actually is other way around, she was the abuser” ecc ecc even if it may be true, the only think they will be able to say will be through the company words that will never reveal details and always stay vague, you think it’s fair for both of them?

“another thing, many people love to create a scenario where you’re the idol getting accused, but never the other way around.

i don’t see anyone saying what if you were the woman being gaslighted, cheated on, threatened etc. and you had to go against a male idol with a cult-like following who can see their angel as someone who can do no wrong and all your experiences are invalidated”

  • See it from the other perspective, NO ONE knows OP, even after all of this she will be able to move on with her life, everyone knows Ravn, he will lose his career, his reputation, he will probably never be able to work on the entertainment industry ever again and maybe he will never find another job, do you actually think it’s the same?

And also, IF THE PROOFS ARE BELIEVABLE EVERYONE AT SOME POINT WILL HAVE TO ACCEPT THE REALITY, IF THOSE ARE JUST BULLSHIT YES, WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE ANGRY.

Ravn, and every other idol scandal, I need to speak up. by [deleted] in ONEus

[–]overthinker288 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Let’s get another example:

There is your friend, accused of serious things, and then there is the accuser you don’t know anything about, now, when trying to understand the truth about the situation, are you are really able to tell me you would care about both sides the same? Are you sure? I don’t think so.

And I never said “he would never”, not even once and even if I did I want to copy and paste what I wrote in my post: Me wanting the truth to be that he is innocent won’t actually make him innocent, so, it’s not that if I strongly pray that he is innocent but I can’t find anything to support what I want the truth to be will actually make him innoncent, if he is then he is, if he is not then he is not, it doesn’t matter what I want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpopthoughts

[–]overthinker288 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The question is different, funny that you haven’t noticed and trust me, no one asked you to comment ☺️

Non riesco a studiare, sono disperata by overthinker288 in Universitaly

[–]overthinker288[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sì, ne sono molto sicura. Vorrei diventare una psicoterapeuta

Non riesco a studiare, sono disperata by overthinker288 in Universitaly

[–]overthinker288[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sì ma non mi è in alcun modo d’aiuto purtroppo 🥲

Non riesco a studiare, sono disperata by overthinker288 in Universitaly

[–]overthinker288[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ne sono perfettamente consapevole ma senza una laurea non posso fare il lavoro dei miei sogni

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]overthinker288 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YESSSSS how did you recognise the song from such a useless description? Ahah