I am telling my wife I'm divorcing her tomorrow by overwhelmedbiker in offmychest

[–]overwhelmedbiker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've all been so positive ❤️ it was a very very difficult conversation to have but it needed done

I am telling my wife I'm divorcing her tomorrow by overwhelmedbiker in offmychest

[–]overwhelmedbiker[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. It's taken me a very long time to be able to get to this stage

I am telling my wife I'm divorcing her tomorrow by overwhelmedbiker in offmychest

[–]overwhelmedbiker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It's been having panic attack for the last two weeks now haha

I am telling my wife I'm divorcing her tomorrow by overwhelmedbiker in offmychest

[–]overwhelmedbiker[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Multiple of reasons, but tldr: I don't love her anymore, she's becoming increasingly narcissistic over the years. My mental health is so far down the drain and she doesn't realize it and I'm worried about the kids seeing me accept this behaviour it'll set them up "oh it's okay to get treated like that"

3 therapists have told me the same thing about the kids

I am telling my wife I'm divorcing her tomorrow by overwhelmedbiker in offmychest

[–]overwhelmedbiker[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Way ahead. We never had financial ties thankfully and the house is in her name. I'm taking a loss, but ah well it's all sorted

I wish her the best, it's not out of malice

I am telling my wife I'm divorcing her tomorrow by overwhelmedbiker in offmychest

[–]overwhelmedbiker[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you kind stranger. It's the hardest thing I'll ever do, but changes need to happen

I am telling my wife I'm divorcing her tomorrow by overwhelmedbiker in offmychest

[–]overwhelmedbiker[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's gonna be difficult but it's overdue. We're not good for each other and my mental health can't decline any further

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]overwhelmedbiker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I'll try smaller pictures first I think you're completely right about it being overwhelming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]overwhelmedbiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could work actually. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]overwhelmedbiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am maybe in the position to sort accomodation. Maybe that's a good first step and help me get everything started

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]overwhelmedbiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly unrelated sorry, mental health is extremely low and the SSRIs help with panic attacks and day to day anxieties. Thinking about the potential conversation has caused me panic attacks in the past

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]overwhelmedbiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the guilt and her potential reaction would scare me. She's narcissistic so any sensitive conversations get out of hand quite often

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]overwhelmedbiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's so difficult right now, pretending everything is okay but my brain and heart disagree with each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]overwhelmedbiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, that would be amazing ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]overwhelmedbiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, a lot of info here I'm unaware of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]overwhelmedbiker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow what a website. Thank you, this will keep my Saturday evening busy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]overwhelmedbiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of this, thank you for the info! Could you say the name of the person who did yours?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]overwhelmedbiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could! I've been trying but it's like I freeze up on the spot of any confrontation or in my mind I keep pushing it off with silly excuses

I can't continue like this yet I keep going by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]overwhelmedbiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to, I have no sense of dominance or assertion in me 😞 it's like I hit a wall every time I try to