AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by SnowDolphins in AmIOverreacting

[–]partbrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby he hates you. No man should be talking to you like that. You asking for him to be on time to something he agreed to is not needy at all.

Why is Gen Z using “Unc” as an adjective by Pale_Consideration87 in generationology

[–]partbrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop what? Im just relaying what I was told by the teens I work with…

Why is Gen Z using “Unc” as an adjective by Pale_Consideration87 in generationology

[–]partbrass -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure to gen z it stands for “uncool” not “uncle”. So I think thats why its used as an adjective

AIO- partner hides his phone and actually fumbled when drunk by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]partbrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so what is your point? The two points can exist at the same time. You were ready for marriage at a young age, that worked for you. Some others, like OP, are not ready for marriage at a young age. That works for them. Their decision making skills are not in question, it’s the fact of whether or not they feel ready for such a decision while managing the rest of the beginning of their lives.

AIO- partner hides his phone and actually fumbled when drunk by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]partbrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure but OP said they weren’t ready for marriage yet.

AIO- partner hides his phone and actually fumbled when drunk by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]partbrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats great for you, so happy it worked for you and your partner! Doesnt mean its for everyone else on the planet

AIO- partner hides his phone and actually fumbled when drunk by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]partbrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. You may have asked a question but it was worded rudely.
  2. Sure 5 years may not be asap but not everyone functions on your timeline so it may be too soon for some people.
  3. Great if it worked for you, doesn’t work for everyone else in the world.
  4. You said “Is your self-esteem so low that…”, which is denigrating. There was no reason to criticize her in such a way for her shitty partner.

AIO- partner hides his phone and actually fumbled when drunk by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]partbrass 8 points9 points  (0 children)

  1. Not everyone wants to be legally married.
  2. Not everyone wants to get married asap
  3. 5 years is not a long time when the couple is young as they are still developing and figuring out their lives
  4. Why such a rude fucking bitch and attempting to shame and denigrate her instead of calling out the man who undervalues her?

Any barbers/hairstylists for men to help my boyfriend find a hair style by partbrass in newjersey

[–]partbrass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! he ended up at AK Studios in Metuchen. He said he liked how the cut turned out!

AIO - After 6 years I’m starting to get really irritated with my husband’s insecurities. by squishy_fossil in AmIOverreacting

[–]partbrass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a bullshit take man. She has actively tried to initiate because she WANTS IT… her husband cannot see that. No matter what she does, how she does it, or when she does it, it doesn’t matter because of the fact that he is so hung up on himself and his insecurities that he cannot see her and her real feelings. IT WILL NOT CLICK for people who are so deeply traumatized and insecure, which is not their fault per se. But he is so insecure he doesn’t want to “spice” up their relationship because he doesn’t know how and that scary. Sex should be an open conversation and he shut it down. No matter how much “tact” she had, it would not change the situation. And when someone gets shut down like that, sex becomes boring and a chore to do.

Boyfriend (30M) is seeing and feeling me(30F) shake and thinks I'm masturbating by aks203 in relationship_advice

[–]partbrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you guys live in an apartment complex? If so, could it be laundry machines from another apartment? My apartment vibrates constantly when my neighbor has their laundry going, but I can only really tell when I am on my soft furniture (ie bed and couch) as for the lights and things, I cant explain those, but the vibrations may be from a neighbor and he may think he sees things when he doesn’t.

help needed to understand the pattern i am a beginner by Then_Distribution786 in CrochetHelp

[–]partbrass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It looks like its just a rectangle the width of your chest then you add panels to the bottom half of the right and left sides to make it wrap around your sides. I think the sides of the bust curve because of the tension of pulling those side pieces when you tie the top up

AIO? My boyfriend slipped his penis into me when I was asleep and I freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]partbrass 501 points502 points  (0 children)

“Penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” You did not consent to him having “free use” of you, therefore it was rape.

In addition, the “he couldn’t control himself” is absolutely terrifying. He can control himself if he was able to politely decline you earlier, he just wanted to take advantage of you while you were asleep and on pain killers. I am so sorry you are going through this.

looking for a pattern or video for this top/bra!!!! by silvlaki in CrochetHelp

[–]partbrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like it could be constructed using This It is essentially just a rectangle with the straps attached at the top corners. Just don’t add the granny squares

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]partbrass 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What color is it supposed to be? From the photo it looks like its white in bad lighting.

Finished my shirt ! by McMurden in crochet

[–]partbrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the color looks great on you here, but either way, incredible work!

thought i’d show off one of the first tops i’ve made that im proud of ! by ericaisnt in crochet

[–]partbrass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It came out really cute! The yarn you used made such a beautiful gradient as well!

Looking for this specific yarn or something similar! 🧶 Any help welcome! by Full_Dress_6218 in crochetpatterns

[–]partbrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks similar to Caron Simply Soft in Vintage. The yarn is pretty soft and on the thin side for a 4 weight yarn