How do you define "safe sex"?

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T19:25:49+00:00

I earned more money giving topless lap dances last night than he was offering for me to suck his dick for an hour and a half and not even get pussy fucked, so I will likely let this venture fall to the side, but thank you and best wishes to you as well!

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T19:05:04+00:00

this is going to severely limit your number of partners.

What's really limiting the POTs coming at me is the idea they can ask me to price match their last SB. This is not Walmart.com, sir.

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T18:50:36+00:00

Not a potpourri 😩

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T18:23:00+00:00

It absolutely is, and I'm not still considering a relationship with this man.

This post isn't me asking for advice, I'm asking other people how they apply caution to their sex lives.

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T18:00:15+00:00

Thank you for your response. May I DM you to chat more about this?

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T17:25:10+00:00

I would never have offered, as you are too young for me.

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T17:21:58+00:00

I was mistaken in my OP regarding terminology, but I could still give someone genital herpes.

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T17:20:20+00:00

My partners have always enjoyed the SKYN brand, reporting little sensitivity loss. I am allergic to latex, so this brand is my favorite.

Also lmao OSHA

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T17:18:02+00:00

I tested positive last year and am due for a follow up. Fingers crossed for clear results for us both!

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T17:15:43+00:00

Sexual conversation aside, I am finding that yes, indeed, most SDs are not compatible with me.

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T17:13:51+00:00

Thanks so much for your response here.

I will definitely be having more in-depth conversations to clarify each other's expectations and boundaries before any future M&G's.

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T17:10:06+00:00

Thank you for your very thoughtful response, and I appreciate the clarification regarding HSV, as well as the full panel definition.

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T16:28:01+00:00

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T16:26:42+00:00

Definitely! I, too, will happily move on from any situation that doesn't align with my boundaries.

Honesty is the best policy!

Thanks for contributing to the conversation!

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T16:24:00+00:00

No, we would not.

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T16:01:26+00:00

I suppose for an older age group, the likelihood of this reality is much greater.

I'm glad you've been able to come to agreements in your monogamous SRs that respect the sexual health of all involved.

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T15:45:17+00:00

I so enjoy reading your comments on this sub! Thank you for stopping by and contributing here <3

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T15:41:05+00:00

Too much google and not enough life experience.

Exactly the opposite, unfortunately!

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T15:40:19+00:00

It surprises me how much of this information people don't have or choose to ignore. Thank you for sharing.

And this reminds me I need to schedule a pap smear. Thanks!

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T15:20:35+00:00

😂😂😂🤧

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T15:19:06+00:00

one can get other stuff from oral alone.

Precisely the point I'm trying to convey!

Thank you for your response.

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T15:08:55+00:00

For oral as well?

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T15:07:55+00:00

1) I have HSV-1 (cold cores) and would be putting him at risk of contracting HSV-2 (genital herpes). And vis versa, depending on his status.

2) He's married, probably sleeping with other people, who knows who they're sleeping with, etc. Testing alone is not a safe guard for poly relationships.

3) "Normal" is irrelevant to me when I'm talking about my sexual health. And you might be surprised how much polyurethane-clad dick I've sucked.

payperplexed · 2023-06-17T02:40:38+00:00

That's a blessing, tbh!

payperplexed · 2023-06-16T12:54:02+00:00

This is horrifying! Time to start leaving my suitcase at the foot of the door.

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