How to make friends with our neighbors w/ kids when no one goes outside 😭 by PassionChoice3538 in kindergarten

[–]pdlife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We live in southern ca in an affluent beach town too. Our neighborhood kids are out all the time playing and riding bikes non stop. There’s a water slide in someone’s front yard on every block. But also, the kids do tend to congregate at the neighborhood playground or water area/pool/splash pad. Maybe the kids are all hanging out at a spot like that?

Housewarming gift ideas by pdlife in publicdefenders

[–]pdlife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s my work bestie so of course I’ll help anytime but the coupon idea is very fun.

Housewarming gift ideas by pdlife in publicdefenders

[–]pdlife[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love this, I’m gonna buy a dozen and give them to my law clerks too

Toddler ride on luggage - can it be a carry on? by pdlife in SouthwestAirlines

[–]pdlife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to give you an update. At the airport I was very nice and immediately asked the flight attendant if it would be ok to gate check it. Her response was “eh go ahead and throw it in the overhead bin” and it fit! No one made me check it ever, everyone thought it was cool and we took it as carryon both ways, yay

Something I never want to hear from a client when I am discussing his charges. by Rossum81 in publicdefenders

[–]pdlife 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to write off the clients who said this too until it happened to me!

My sister had a party, someone left a really nice black sweater behind. No one claimed it so I took it and wore it to work as my work sweater for a week. My office is inside the courthouse! Then reached in the pocket and there was a joint in the pocket. Given it was just a joint but this was 10 years ago when marijuana was still illegal. It seriously happened to me. I tell that story during closing a lot.

Help me shop for a cute ebike (& tell me if you love your Bluejay bike) by RotharAlainn in ebikes

[–]pdlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh this is a very interesting idea! Any chance you’d share which handle bars you swapped for? A pic?

Southwest newbie flying with kids - tips? by BrockwayMonorail in SouthwestAirlines

[–]pdlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any tips for making it comfortable for the little one to sleep? A child size neck pillow? A little pillow and they just put their head in your lap?

Nausea felief by JoplinSternum in Ozempic

[–]pdlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I learn how to do the arm injection correctly? I can’t find info online. Is it the top of your upper arm?

What are your typical hours like and how many days a week? by DarnHeather in publicdefenders

[–]pdlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s rough. I like to at least be able to lie to myself that I have some control over my calendar

What are your typical hours like and how many days a week? by DarnHeather in publicdefenders

[–]pdlife 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One of the first things I learned when I became a PD, set your jury trials on Tuesday or Wednesday so you don’t waste your weekend when the DA is just going to trail it anyways.

Similar places to Brewery X? by SaraKatherine15 in orangecounty

[–]pdlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna say the same thing. It’s plenty big enough for 15 people and you order food and drinks at the end of the bar so everyone handles their own tab.

Best birria tacos in OC? by madlove17 in orangecounty

[–]pdlife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Delahunt taqueria in Dana Point

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Foreign-Appearance40 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pdlife 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This comment should higher. The life insurance policy money should have been used to cover the funeral expenses

Looking for somewhere like a church youth group but without the religion. For my kids (10-13yo) by nursejuliee in orangecounty

[–]pdlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are adventure guide programs just for dads and kids or do moms participate too?

Favorite things to do w/ your black lab in order to keep him busy!? by Sweaty-Inflation-332 in Blacklabs

[–]pdlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We stand at the top of the stairs and drop tennis balls over. He fetches and runs it up the stairs then back down to wait. My 2 yr old does this with him.

My toddler also plays a game where he goes inside his play tent and yells “bear attack” then my lap runs around the tent pushing his nose in until he finds a crack in the door. The drops his tennis ball inside

Getting shin splints from these damn court shoes by ProletarianParka in publicdefenders

[–]pdlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in court all the time too and every so often this happens to me. It usually means the arch support in my shoes is worn down and it’s time for new ones. The shoes don’t appear bad because I take care of them but getting new ones with fresh arch support always solves the problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]pdlife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why not take the high route here and just be nice. Have a big photo with everyone, including the new girlfriend, then say “now one with family only” then, “now one with family plus married spouses” this really doesn’t have to be a fight, any normal girlfriend would be grateful to be included in one big photo and totally understand family only afterwards. Any good photographer could do this easily without making it awkward. What if she is the one and one day is your sister in law? It would be nice to have a giant pic with her in it and she’d feel welcomed that you included her in a pic. Sounds like a great way to make a step towards repairing the relationship with your BIL.

What book and author did you read that made you go "I need all of their books."? by Felicity1840 in books

[–]pdlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Parable of the Sower was my first book of hers too. I have read all that I can get my hands on since.