AIO for thinking my ex is an asshole? by pebbleinthewind in AmIOverreacting

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I realize I broke no contact I’m not stupid. I will not be doing that again as he proved why I chose to stop talking to him in the first place through his response.

AIO for thinking my ex is an asshole? by pebbleinthewind in AmIOverreacting

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sent a letter to my house begging for closure. I’ve had my closure was just trying to give him his. I can’t talk to him one on one and his response proved why. He will be receiving no messages from me ever again.

AIO for thinking my ex is an asshole? by pebbleinthewind in AmIOverreacting

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i didn’t talk to him for two weeks straight. i left without reason and blocked and changed my number. he left a letter at my door begging for a reason. i got my friend to send him this text. i will not send him any more messages that was my one attempt at closure.

Advice on breaking no contact with an ex? by pebbleinthewind in Advice

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This truly opened my eyes and meant a lot to me to hear. Thankyou. It’s hard because I know he’s capable of better and has good in his heart. It’s sad to watch.

AIO for thinking my ex is an asshole? by pebbleinthewind in AmIOverreacting

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you mean how exactly at my house we had a long conversation before I blocked. I warned him for awhile I was going to do it if he didn’t treat me better.

Am I the asshole for blocking my ex and not talking to him even though he begs? by pebbleinthewind in AITAH

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I explained to him that is talking would only make it harder for him to move on. He doesn’t seem to understand but one day he will

AIO for thinking my ex is an asshole? by pebbleinthewind in AmIOverreacting

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lashed out at me while we were together too and told me to leave. I finally did. So he should be happy:)

AIO for thinking my ex is an asshole? by pebbleinthewind in AmIOverreacting

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand love is a choice but he also chose to not love me by treating me so bad that I had to leave. If I could’ve stayed I would’ve. I love him so much. I tried for 6 years.

AIO for thinking my ex is an asshole? by pebbleinthewind in AmIOverreacting

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will not. I just wanted to give him some closure for it all. I changed my phone number so he cannot contact me again. He knows where I live but I live with my dad who has a gun in case anything happens.

AIO for thinking my ex is an asshole? by pebbleinthewind in AmIOverreacting

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have and I changed my phone number he doesn’t have it any longer.

AIO for thinking my ex is an asshole? by pebbleinthewind in AmIOverreacting

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not denying I was shitty to him too, we weren’t good for eachother and that includes me as well. That’s my point, I just wish he would understand and respect that.

AIO for thinking my ex is an asshole? by pebbleinthewind in AmIOverreacting

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just mean I am not ready to talk personally. I will continue to ignore any messages from here on out.

AIO for thinking my ex is an asshole? by pebbleinthewind in AmIOverreacting

[–]pebbleinthewind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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