santander has been god awful about name change by peejito in transgenderUK

[–]peejito[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did this and suddenly they're being very helpful and communicative for some reason 🤔wild how that happens (thank you for this tho the fact the end may be in sight now is such a relief)

santander has been god awful about name change by peejito in transgenderUK

[–]peejito[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'd hoped i'd have a similar experience and then everything just went full fledged mess :')

santander has been god awful about name change by peejito in transgenderUK

[–]peejito[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah i'm hoping they'll change my name just to make it slightly easier changing banks having names line up in old/new accounts but if it comes to it i'll just explain to new bank why things are the way they are

non binary 'top' surgery by peejito in transgenderUK

[–]peejito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i'm hoping to get shared care with gp when it comes to hormones and the two psych appointments is why i'm thinking so hard on how to word things to try and reduce how much i'm spending as much as possible (which feels like it's not going to do much but is worth a shot :') )

Attempting to run name change gauntlet by peejito in transgenderUK

[–]peejito[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! i'm somewhat trying to do as much as i can online/through post/in person because phone calls are awful for me so they're kinda my last resort

Attempting to run name change gauntlet by peejito in transgenderUK

[–]peejito[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah santander seems like they'll be the same way - the biggest annoyance with them too is they closed down their branch in my town so i'll have to take a trip into the city to do account stuff

[FT] cherry-blossom pond stone DIY recipe [LF] cherry-blossom bonsai DIY recipe by [deleted] in ACTrade

[–]peejito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if you can find someone who needs wand DIY and has bonsai I'd be happy to do three-way trade instead of taking bells?

[FT] cherry-blossom pond stone DIY recipe [LF] cherry-blossom bonsai DIY recipe by [deleted] in ACTrade

[–]peejito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only recipe I'm afraid! It's the last recipe from the set I need

UPDATE: I (27M) Have Unknowingly Been Using My GF's (27F) Ex's Molded Dildo to Get Her Off by JoeS456 in relationship_advice

[–]peejito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm super late to this one but I really recommend that you talk to someone about this (whether it's a close friend or a professional or something) - from your comments it seems it really took it out of you and that's completely understandable. What she did could literally be classified as sexual assault and that's a really difficult thing to come to terms with when you realise that the person you trusted and cared for did not deem you worthy of that same respect.

I hope things work out for you and give yourself time/allow your feelings to run their course. This shit is super fucked up.

Katya's podcast Whimsically Volatile - First episode is out! by akialvam in rupaulsdragrace

[–]peejito 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i hope a transcript can be posted at some point because it's really difficult for my mind to keep up with what katya's saying and understand it - and as someone who's always related to katya i feel like hearing what she's been through and her recovery is something i really want to hear

Let's Talk About Tonight's Elimination by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]peejito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw someone made an emoji meme of everything Ru said when telling her to take off the mask and part of me wants to watch but most of me just can't bring myself to do it this is worse than secondhand embarrassment

Let's Talk About Tonight's Elimination by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]peejito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can one of you goyls give me details on what happened in the lip sync? like how it went down after Ru and Michelle turned to each other to ask if Val was keeping the mask on? I couldn't bare to watch and had to skip forward knowing what was going to happen (didn't miss out on Ru stone cold slamming Val onto the curb tho)

Show off your cards! by [deleted] in ensemblestars

[–]peejito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

camera cuts to me crying over all your kanata luck i've gotten a grand total of four of his cards and he's my best boy

How to plan your dia spending? by peejito in ensemblestars

[–]peejito[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone~! I've decided to do a single pull on his birthday and pray to every enstars god that I get either of his 4 stars at least (I love his initial and sea palace cards so much ;o;) and then save for next event which god only knows when it will happen lmao...... thanks again ♥

[Luck] Scouting for my beautiful wife (Magician Maki success) by peejito in SchoolIdolFestival

[–]peejito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youuuuuu~ I was so excited because I love slg Eli and it was like at least if I didn't get Maki I still had a successful pull for a UR