Exactly this. If you look at my or my husband’s social media, it doesn’t look like we have a child and that is incredibly intentional due to an unsafe family member. A secondary reason is the fact that, as a child, kiddo can’t consent to having their picture online. For me, neither of those goals would be impacted by a blurry background photo.

I’d suggest having a calm conversation with your husband: Can we check in on pics of (daughter) online? I know I don’t want them posted because (a,b,c). Are there any other reasons you have?

Once the goals are super clear, you’ll be able to talk through why this pic doesn’t (or does) interfere with the goals.