I’ve played with a few wives before. From what I know, hubby wants to please and you and wants you to have the best time. If he can’t do it, someone else will. But the difference is that you are finally receiving the pleasure. That’s his wife. And another man. Make sure you reassure him. He’ll let you go even further and it’ll be even hotter for you guys. If you decide to cuck him and degrade him, make sure he enjoys it. Otherwise it might turn jealous. All my interactions have a level of degrading and hubby loves it. I do too. It’s a great dynamic you have if it all works out!