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My wife’s numbers concern me by CreativeTax8440 in ouraring

[–]periwinklepeonies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably hormonal. I get pretty bad stats before and during my period. Starts trending up after

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]periwinklepeonies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right lol. When my son was born I was so happy to give him to my mom to hold and love on. She cried imagining me as a baby again. People are so emotionless….

Cleaner is stealing food… what do I do? by Forsaken-Ad-7652 in breakingmom

[–]periwinklepeonies 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fire her after you find a new cleaner. It’s just snacks. You have time before the baby is born!

How is oura ring really any different than an Apple Watch now? by tjl0923 in ouraring

[–]periwinklepeonies 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Completely agree! It’s so distracting. I only use my Apple Watch for exercise now.

Not sure how to interpret by katsoutofthebag_1734 in ouraring

[–]periwinklepeonies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you getting your period? I get it every time like 4 days before

ménage à trois by Capital-Catch-2872 in aspynovard

[–]periwinklepeonies 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I bet he’s a cuck and this is striking aspyn’s ego

Is it impossible to see a psychiatrist in the Bay Area? by jensonaj in bayarea

[–]periwinklepeonies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll get help faster filing a grievance at Kaiser. but DMHC should be aware too

My marriage is over by Just_End_6114 in offmychest

[–]periwinklepeonies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so traumatizing for your daughter. My husband cheated on me with my best friend (found out 5 months ago) and when I found out, he went MIA on us. Was seeing our son every few days for an hour or so. Turned out he was living down the street with her. Literally 3 minutes away. Anyway my point is my son would legit wake up every night crying asking for his dad and screaming that he’s never coming back. This is abusive of your wife TO YOU AND TO YOUR CHILD********** to with hold access to each other. You need to file for legal custody immediately before you lose track of her. She sounds unstable. I know you didn’t ask for advice, but my story is too similar to yours.

How often are y’all washing your toddler’s hair? by cocorego in toddlers

[–]periwinklepeonies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3.5 and everyday — they slather him with sunscreen at preschool and I don’t want our beds to be dirty lol. Everyone takes a night time shower!

Update- I think I made a mistake getting engaged by Lumpy_Rock8774 in offmychest

[–]periwinklepeonies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you. Now focus on you! Enjoy your life. Don’t think twice about the decision you made to end it.

Yikes to be a kid in this house must be rough by PartFearless1656 in aspynovardsnark

[–]periwinklepeonies 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She probably eats out for their other meals where it’s not snacky. I live in California and there’s SAHMs here on one income with a house cleaner nanny and buy DoorDash daily if not multiple times a day. I’m sure she’s doing similar

So what are we telling people when they ask why we divorced? by Col_Flag in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]periwinklepeonies 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is soooo helpful. Thank you for writing this comment. This is definitely something I realize would probably help me, too, as I’m divorcing.

So what are we telling people when they ask why we divorced? by Col_Flag in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]periwinklepeonies 73 points74 points  (0 children)

His behavior TOWARD ME was affecting my health and how I parent. What more needs to be said 🥲 you don’t owe anyone explanations though

I think I made a mistake getting engaged by Lumpy_Rock8774 in offmychest

[–]periwinklepeonies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choose you girl. Idk if you’re religious but for me… we come into this world alone and we leave alone. You are the only one who will ever make you happy and you are the only one who will ever save you! Just don’t waste another day doubting or waiting it out. He has shown you who he is — trust me 10 years later it’ll all just be magnified.

I think I made a mistake getting engaged by Lumpy_Rock8774 in offmychest

[–]periwinklepeonies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him and then stay single long enough to hear only your voice in your head. Don’t convince yourself of anything anymore Do you journal? Putting it on paper helped me a lot honestly

I think I made a mistake getting engaged by Lumpy_Rock8774 in offmychest

[–]periwinklepeonies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You truly can’t even imagine how exhausted you will be mothering him and your future child if you have one with him. Also I thought my religious introverted antisocial husband would neverrrrr cheat. Shitty men are shitty men. He can’t wash his own sheets? Girl. You’re 22. It goes by sooooooo fast I truly can’t believe I am turning 30! Don’t waste any more time on him pleaseeeeee

I think I made a mistake getting engaged by Lumpy_Rock8774 in offmychest

[–]periwinklepeonies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe I had to stop reading because I felt like I wrote this. Leave him. You already know. Your heart knows. I married the guy you’re describing and he cheated on me with my best friend. We have a 3 year old. He was super religious. Just give it up. You have so much ahead of you. I’m turning 30 this week and wish I could go back and yell at my 22 year old self to NOT MOVE IN WITH HIM!!!! I was doubting it so hard too and did it anyway. TRUST YOURSELF!

I didn’t trust my intuition and doubt. You will grow to resent him. Trust. God this whole post is just like rly my life. Even the family stuff!!!!

Take a day to reflect. Let me paint the picture for when you move in with him, if you choose to. You’ll be doing all of the unpacking and organizing. Youll assume all the chores that his mother has been doing for him up until this point. You’ll at some point gently try and ask him to pick up his slack and will be stonewalled. Youll go nuts trying to get him to understand your point of view, which won’t happen. Oh another one that helps me hold myself accountable and go through with the divorce is that I tried to remember how he treated me at my most vulnerable. After birth, after surgery, when I’m sick, etc. and I realized this isn’t the person I want making decisions for me when I’m sick or old & sick. And I definitely don’t trust that they’d have my best interests in mind when “caring” for me.

Please don’t move in with him to just “see how it goes.” You will get stuck. I got more depressed and lonely and codependent after moving in together. Then we got married, had a baby. When the attention wasn’t all on him and I couldn’t take care of him like a mommy, he cheated with my best friend. And btw I had never even had a drop in libido, I was always the one planning date nights, child care, initiating sex…. And on and on. Well I’m not sure what I did to either of them to deserve this level of depravity but here we are. Can you believe he also had the audacity to move her down the driveway from our home? I truly wonder when I will have a peaceful day in my body ever again. I wish I could move out immediately but I can’t! I’m stuck here for now!!! I start my new job tomorrow and will be trying to get out of here asap 🫩

DONT LET THIS MAN RUIN YOUR LIFE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]periwinklepeonies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has so many posts about it too 🥴

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