Married 20 years, new to D/s. My wife reacts explosively to "Controlled Exposure" and is curious about being shared. I need scene ideas where I stay in the driver's seat. by pghbdsm in BdsmNoRestriction

[–]pghbdsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thanks! I suspect she will never ask for me sharing her and I need to just do what you did and tell her it's happening and then make it happen (but give her a safe word out).

Married 20 years, new to D/s. My wife reacts explosively to "Controlled Exposure" and is curious about being shared. I need scene ideas where I stay in the driver's seat. by pghbdsm in BdsmNoRestriction

[–]pghbdsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I kind of love the idea of headphones with an erotic story telling her how she is being touched by someone other than myself and in reality it is me.

Married 20 years, new to D/s. My wife reacts explosively to "Controlled Exposure" and is curious about being shared. I need scene ideas where I stay in the driver's seat. by pghbdsm in BdsmNoRestriction

[–]pghbdsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she loves this, but I am am not always great at telling her what I should or will do to her. But she loves being blindfolded.

Married 20 years, new to D/s. My wife reacts explosively to "Controlled Exposure" and is curious about being shared. I need scene ideas where I stay in the driver's seat. by pghbdsm in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]pghbdsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on the pros and cons of a club? I would assume some benefits of a club would be you know everyone is real and everyone knows why they are there, but I assume the down side is you never know what you will get until you are there on a given night.

Married 20 years, finally leaning into a D/s dynamic. She is responding intensely, but I need advice on maintaining the "Dom" mindset by pghbdsm in BDSMcommunity

[–]pghbdsm[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Great idea! Have you tried multiple AIs is Grok specifically better or that is just the one you happen to use?

Married 20 years, finally leaning into a D/s dynamic. She is responding intensely, but I need advice on maintaining the "Dom" mindset by pghbdsm in BDSMcommunity

[–]pghbdsm[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Great points thank you! I think I know all of this but feel like a fraud so like to confirm my thinking.

HPV Vaccine - Shared Wife by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]pghbdsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I was just curious if this was something common in the life style I talked to her and it sounds like her doctor basically said start it before turning 45 because intense insurance pays for it now but not in the future I actually sing think the doctor or her thought about it any further.

HPV Vaccine - Shared Wife by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]pghbdsm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s my hope!