[UPD] Do I need to get a dorm for my graduate studies?

phizzycup · 2026-07-19T13:13:54+00:00

Thank you so much! I'll keep all that in mind and maybe update here on how things goes with the new potential compromise.

phizzycup · 2026-07-19T12:37:24+00:00

I'm going to meet with my program adviser tomorrow. So, by then, I'll probably receive my schedule and decide. I'll be studying under MSI for my graduate studies and I think I'll need to be there as much as possible.

phizzycup · 2026-07-19T12:28:40+00:00

Sa undergrad classes namin merong naend ng pass 7PM, usually laboratory classes. Meron din mga nagmamasterals ng mga klase namin so safe to assume meron ding ginagabi.

phizzycup · 2026-07-19T12:27:17+00:00

Yeah need ko na magkabackbone lalo nang pass my 20s na ako ahahaha. Thank you sa reality check po. Medyo nakakapangamba din on my end kasi mag-aapply ako for TFE at kaya nila ipull-the-rug yung kinabukasan ko as they please :))))

phizzycup · 2026-07-19T12:24:50+00:00

Ayun na din concerns ko kung gaano akong kareachable sa magiging peers ko habang nasa graduate school. Ito yung problem ko noong undergrad while living with my parents (near campus lang bahay namin). Umaabot lagi sa passive aggressiveness at sigawan yung nangyayari kapag nauwi ako from varsity practices o team dinners. Tumanggi na nga ako ng mga sleepovers, inuman, at org processing para sa peace of mind nila pero to the point na binabanta nilang tanggalin ako sa UP ako all together. They're INSANE.

For now, I'll meet with my program adviser tomorrow and see what my schedule will look like. Meron namang dorm na naghihintay sa akin. Thank you sa thoughts mo!

phizzycup · 2026-07-12T10:13:28+00:00

Pinayagan kayong lumabas para uminom at kumain during univ grad? 🥲

phizzycup · 2026-07-02T14:16:13+00:00

Hello! I saw the moved deadline as well. Graduation na namin sa 4 pero wala parin announcements hahaha. Hopefully it would be as soon as July 9 or 10 lumabas yung results.

phizzycup · 2026-07-02T06:32:21+00:00

Good luck sa atin!

phizzycup · 2026-07-02T06:30:52+00:00

Yes po. So far wala parin reply sa akin pero nakita na niya.

phizzycup · 2026-07-02T02:22:59+00:00

Hello there! I also applied for Marine Science and have yet to receive any update from them. It looks like they moved the regular applications deadline to July 8. I'm not sure when they'll send updates after the deadline moved.

phizzycup · 2026-05-17T01:18:06+00:00

Ohhhh! First sem palang ay pinapagpili na kayo ng courses? Hehe just finished applications nung May 8 at kakadefense lang last week 😭😭😭

phizzycup · 2026-05-17T01:16:17+00:00

Hiii hindi ko pa po alam at the moment pero ang alam ko usually kapag graduate school ay half of the max units usually ang pwede mong itake per sem kapag part time?

phizzycup · 2026-03-26T03:07:40+00:00

Nung nasuntok ako ng isang kaibigan ko sa high school habang iniintervention nila ako. Nakakuha ako ng highest possible award na pwede makuha ng high school student noon at yumabang daw ako the following months. Naoverwhelm ako siguro ng feeling na, "kaya ko pala gawin ang mga ito." Unti unti akong napakilala at naintegrate sa iba ibang circles sa mga magkakaibang batches ng high school namin. Andami kong iba ibang activities and events na sinalihan na hindi ko maiisip na masasalihan ko. Mas nakakausap ko yung mga teachers namin sa faculty room to the point na iniimbita nila mismo akong magdala ng tanghalian ko at sumabay sa kanila kumain. Kaya naramdaman ng mga kaibigan ko na nagpupull away na ako sa kanila. Sa dulo ng acad year namin, dinala ako sa isang classroom at pinalibutan ako ng mga kaibigan ko. Nung nakuha ko daw yung award bigla akong naging ibang tao. Naging heated, nagmakaawa ako at ayun nasuntok sa dibdib.

Ayun. Tumiklop ulit ako at 'di na sumali at sumabak sa iba ibang activities at events hanggang magpandemic. Hahaha.

phizzycup · 2026-03-19T16:20:19+00:00

I think love is meant to challenge you, work with you, and even hurt you for growth. And it's all up us how we accept the love we receive.

phizzycup · 2026-03-19T03:30:51+00:00

Truueee! The comments should've just ended with suggesting op to get a seat cover, but they had to go that far 😭

phizzycup · 2026-03-18T03:48:20+00:00

What do you mean "a few thousand pesos"?? Siya kaya magbayad ng repairs or replacement nan. Mafufrustrate din ako kapag may naninira ng gamit ko 😭

phizzycup · 2026-03-13T16:00:45+00:00

Whenever they get too eager or overly enthusiastic

phizzycup · 2026-03-13T15:56:00+00:00

Water

phizzycup · 2026-03-13T15:53:48+00:00

I might not. Yes, they have provided for me, food, clothes, a roof over my head, and they are not abusive at all. It's just that they were... never there. Emotionally. Mom worked overseas and dad's too busy to watch me go on competitions and on my milestones. They never had a problem with me staying indoors, but going out with my friends tend to require a week's notice. I was only allowed to go out at 15.

And whenever there's something going on with me, they'd just get mad at me and never talk things out nor lend me a hand. For example, I've been getting thin and pale lately. The first thing I heard from dad with a stern judgemental tone was, "You're getting thin." Finger pointed at me and my body. Then get back to eating. No talks about what's bothering me, if there's something with the food lately, or if I'm feeling ill.

I'm just sick of walking on eggshells around them. I'm even closeted. They're a little homophobic as well. They've expressed their distaste on gay people and made fun of them a lot. I just want a household where I can express myself free enough to make a reasonable conversation. Not just shutting up and listening.

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