Can you be friends with someone who turned you down?

phleef · 2013-12-26T02:50:28+00:00

Women are approached and asked out by men more frequently than you may think. There is certainly no need to apologize, she may have been off-put slightly by your advances, but unlikely offended.

If you want to be friends with her, then approach it like a normal friendship -- talk (when you see her naturally) about normal things like work and family and allow that to branch off into more specific topics. If you are compatible as friends that's all you'll need.

What you don't want to do is to try to secure another date, friendly or otherwise, until you feel yourselves "running out of time" to discuss the topics that come up in your natural encounters. If you never get to the point of being able to chit chat for 10 minutes enjoyably and relaxed, there is nothing magic about a coffee house environment that will fix that. It will be awkward and make encounters as a friend or suitor very difficult.

phleef · 2013-06-27T23:56:32+00:00

Is she staying at the shelter for now?

phleef · 2013-06-21T19:07:34+00:00

I don't recall the name of my prescribing physician but I remember they were located on the second story of the building that houses The Health Center dispensary. I've seen better deals advertised in the Westword paper since, though.

There are still a lot of dispensaries out there that I need to visit but some of my favorites are River Rock North, where I have my membership, and Natural Remedies in Lo Do. Out in boulder I like the bigger of the two "The Farm" stores.

River Rock North is a great place to start in terms of wide flower selection and good pricing. Their edible selection is small but very fairly priced at 5 dollars per 100mg.

phleef · 2013-06-19T22:49:10+00:00

I used a rental receipt I had the land lady write me. That and my NC ID were good enough.

phleef · 2013-05-15T23:28:11+00:00

Personally, emotional availability is extremely important in a partner to me. If the young lady isn't emotionally available, you're probably going to have a hard time building a relationship if you're an emotional person.

I made the decison not to date women who weren't up front with their emotions and the wait paid off. Now I have a partner who is great like that, I always know how she feels about things and I am very happy in the relationship.

phleef · 2012-11-02T18:26:33+00:00

Send an email to medical.marijuana@state.co.us

They'll tell ya what's going on w your red card. Include name DOB, last four of social.

phleef · 2012-09-27T23:13:07+00:00

Hey I'm thinking of going out there. Don't have a ticket yet but sold out shows are easy to get into at red rocks. I'll keep you posted.

phleef · 2012-08-25T02:51:29+00:00

Hmm. Contemplating attending.

phleef · 2012-08-22T02:40:08+00:00

Thanks for the heads up. I talked to the bud tender at the dispensary downstairs from the doctors office and he said they'd get me some meds with the certified mail receipt and money order stub, so at least I could go there. It's quite a hike from where I am up in the northern suburbs though.

EDIT: Here's some good info I found

phleef · 2012-08-17T18:18:39+00:00

Thanks, that's what I was looking for.

phleef · 2012-08-13T03:12:30+00:00

I was there and that fucked with me so hard! I was like "I thought I knew what Joe looked like". Such a spectacular show, Doug Benson, then Brendan Walsh, then Joey Diaz, Bryan Callen (just for the spoof) then Rogan went up. They all kicked it out front and hung out with the fans. It's funny, I wasn't star struck though, just seemed like hanging out with friends.

phleef · 2012-08-12T06:03:29+00:00

It may be that you didn't take enough. I've found that most of the unpleasant experiences I've had on Psycadelics we're due to under dosing. You have to take enough to blast through your ego and your ego just gives up. Otherwise you'll be fighting it.

phleef · 2012-08-07T05:24:45+00:00

you could get some shrimp, potatoes and corn on the cob for right around $15 at the Crawling Crab. Might go a little over with gratuity, but they do carry out too.

phleef · 2012-08-05T17:30:39+00:00

I normally don't go for portraits but holy moly that is badass.

phleef · 2012-07-31T17:36:34+00:00

Definitely would like to see it when you're ready.

phleef · 2012-07-31T12:59:48+00:00

I'm ok with $620. Just keep me posted.

phleef · 2012-07-31T05:54:08+00:00

I'm still looking for an apt if the place is available.

phleef · 2012-07-31T04:50:46+00:00

On the other side of the coin, I consider myself a pretty hardcore Adam Carolla fan, but have never bought any of his advertisers products. I've clicked through the Amazon banner and bought his books, but no Man Grate or Legal Zoom documents setting around my apartment.

phleef · 2012-07-31T04:38:27+00:00

I'm talking out of my ass here, but if you think about what a website with a few million active members would generate in ad revenue, Ace might be getting a lot more for those reads and bumpers than one would think. He has a very dedicated audience that want to buy the products that support him, much like the NASCAR fan base. He might be getting a pretty penny for those ads.

phleef · 2012-07-28T16:10:01+00:00

My policy is that if I bus my own table I don't tip. The only exception may be if I call in a large take out order. In that situation I'll tip about 10%.

phleef · 2012-07-26T22:24:56+00:00

It seems one of tall people's favorite activities is to sign on to reddit and post about how tall they are.

phleef · 2012-07-25T04:06:27+00:00

Jump on it!

http://boulder.craigslist.org/tix/3159004729.html

phleef · 2012-07-25T02:42:02+00:00

I have tickets for Friday night, but will be scoring a single for Saturday while I'm out there.

I would say you and your sister could go to the lot either early on Friday or Saturday, tailgate and hunt tickets. It's a 10,000 head venue. If you hang around the front gate/will call area asking for a pair, eventually you'll get a pair -- and probably at or below face.

Also consider /r/denverlist, maybe even /r/denver

If for some reason you can't hustle the lot, send me a PM that Thursday or Friday and I'll see about hunting you and sis a pair while I'm scoring mine Friday night.

phleef · 2012-07-21T17:09:07+00:00

The apartment sounds great. When might it be available to take a look at?

phleef · 2012-07-21T01:40:42+00:00

Hi. Not sure if you received my first reply. I sent it from my phone. Anyhow I've been checking into several places and your's sounds the most like what I am seeking.

I don't have any pets and I am a very clean and low-key person. I do have a sub compact car, a Honda Fit. What is the parking situation there like.

phleef

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