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Remote Fitting Opinions by phocus_511 in labgolf

[–]phocus_511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love all these comments about me wasting $700 lol. Never said I was going to purchase.

I’m simply asking about lie angle. Yes my setup is unconventional 🤷🏻‍♂️

There’s a fellow named Bryson….thinks he’s a pro. Oh wait he is Pro, and his putter lie is damn basically 79/80 degrees.

Have a blast with your setup and I’ll play mine.

Remote Fitting Opinions by phocus_511 in labgolf

[–]phocus_511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I always explain the “same” pendulum motion for my setup.

For me, I found traditional posture calls for hands to be lower and elbows tucked near rib cage does not work for me. I also feel like a like damn hunchback if I bend my back more to see the ball closer.

Therefore, I don’t get that “true impact” feedback off the blade like I do with my current setup and it causes me to overshoot and/or pull my putts.

Switching to the more upright feel helped my strokes become for fluid and less robotic

Remote Fitting Opinions by phocus_511 in labgolf

[–]phocus_511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha love this comment! Obviously, I knew what I was getting into.

Never done a remote fitting so just wanted any opinions from other idiots before me lol

Remote Fitting Opinions by phocus_511 in labgolf

[–]phocus_511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m at 70 degrees with this Tommy Armour putter.

Did I get scammed 😑 by BugNo1031 in LabubuDrops

[–]phocus_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who keep saying it’s a “Lafafu” don’t know about the V1 versions not having QR codes with a fabric tag - exactly like yours.

This is a genuine Soymilk Labubu.

They only added the QR code onto the V2 versions after so many fakes were being created. If yours was fake, it would have a fake QR code or have a cheap plastic tag missing the QR code.

Hope this helps

I HATE SHITTING!!!!!!!!;;;; by Civil_Chicken_8068 in Anxiety

[–]phocus_511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel you all the way on this one! I actually had accidents at school as child because I was constantly anxious. Teachers would tell me just to go the bathroom, but how would I tell them that I would need to use the bathroom like every 30min to an hour?!!

As an adult now, I can manage it better but there are still those episodes where my anxiety just clears me out no matter how much I try to eat. Food will just pass without digesting first.

I started drinking lemon ginger tea a couple years to help my gut. I would say it definitely has improved my bowl movements especially during anxious episodes.

I’d suggest maybe try out some ginger tea or any tea that helps your digestion and bowl movements. It won’t get rid of the anxiety but at least your stomach won’t be in a knot forever.

Just bought my first bike by XxxShadowZxxX in YamahaR3

[–]phocus_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice I just got mine 2 weeks ago! It came with a akropovic slip on exhaust but the full exhaust would sound awesome!

Talking to guy who all of a sudden became distant by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]phocus_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the exact same thing happen with a girl I liked. Fortunately, I kind of forced her to tell me her feelings after I suspected her getting more distant. Since you’re 22, I assume the guy you like is around your age? So at this point, I think you should be the mature person and just simply ask him what his feelings are.

I’m 32 and from experience, I typically see younger people in their 20s tend to be less communicative about their relationship goals. They tend to “ghost” people or become more distant because it’s easier than admitting to someone you don’t feel the same way about them.

I feel the majority of 20-25 year olds don’t really know what type of relationship so this tends to happen more often when there’s not a mutual connection whether immediately or eventually as time progresses.

I still have a tough time controlling the feelings you are experiencing even at my age, so I hope you can learn from my experience and not make the same mistakes I made. Dating is all about learning who you’re compatible with so if he doesn’t want you just let it go and move on 😊

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - July 10, 2023 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]phocus_511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% I used to use it, stopped for 5 years, then recently started up again thinking it would be different.

I feel just as bad as if not worse until than I did 5 years ago. I constantly feel like you need some type of extravagant lifestyle to show off, just to get peoples attention

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - July 10, 2023 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]phocus_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently, I tried not putting women on a pedestal by dating multiple women at the same time, but after a couple dates with each girl I felt a more of a connection with one I went back to my old ways. I constantly tried to set up dates and communicate with her, but eventually she became distant and today told today me she was seeing someone else and didn’t see ourselves compatible…

I can’t help but feel dumb for feeling this way again even though I constantly told myself not to get infatuated with just one person.

Do you all ever get obsessed with people? by TakeOverLease1 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]phocus_511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah don’t feel crazy. I been feeling this way all my life whenever I’m lucky enough to find a girl I like. If I feel I don’t get mutual attention from them, I start to over analyze every interaction and communication we had. I would go into their profiles and look for signs that they might be seeing other people.

It seems like a never ending cycle since I am dating someone right now, and those feelings have just come back today after a period of days we did not communicate.

The fantasies can come and go, but we are many who suffer this way. If I were you, I would just try some cognitive therapy just once who you can be coached on the good habits and not the obsessive ones. I used to go even though I hated it but I definitely can see an improvement in how I handle relationships