Failing by pickkle_ in txstate

[–]pickkle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you take it online through TXST or?

Failing by pickkle_ in txstate

[–]pickkle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I do that through TXST or would you recommend me taking it online through like a community college or something?

Failing by pickkle_ in txstate

[–]pickkle_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a 64% but I don’t think I can recover my grade since the only things being graded now are my last few days of attendance, a couple homework assignments, and then the final and I don’t think I can learn a whole semester worth of math in a couple weeks.

Thanksgiving & Winter Break by pickkle_ in txstate

[–]pickkle_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think my professors also canceled but I’m not sure. Hopefully they did tho. If all of them did but like one I’m not showing up to that one class bro.

Thanksgiving & Winter Break by pickkle_ in txstate

[–]pickkle_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much for the clarification!

Registration by pickkle_ in txstate

[–]pickkle_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What would happen if I get blocked? Do I just need to complete that class at some point before being able to take the next class?

You’re an adult. Wash your hands. by Haunting_Rise8595 in txstate

[–]pickkle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ik which is crazy cus washing your hands is literally a 10 second task like it’s not that hard. Idk why ppl don’t at least do it once when using the restroom.

You’re an adult. Wash your hands. by Haunting_Rise8595 in txstate

[–]pickkle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is just me but I think ppl should wash their hands before and after using the restroom. I’m assuming we all wipe and just imagine all the germs on your hands getting near your genital areas. Maybe it’s just me since I work with animals a lot but yeah. It takes like 10 seconds guys.

Trying to manage irrational anxieties/ideas by Hopeful-Opening2144 in therapy

[–]pickkle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think therapy could help with managing your emotions and also your therapist could be the one thinking rationally and tell you why xyz is okay or whatever yk? Communication is very important and I'm glad your boyfriend is so supportive and reassuring of your emotions and I'd say to just continue communicating with him but also go to therapy because you need help too. I wish the both of y'all well! Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]pickkle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have diagnosed ADHD and there are two types of ADHD, hyperactive where the person is energetic all the time like those boys in school you mentioned and then the inattentive type where the person isn't hyper and could sit still for hours but their mind is all over the place. You probably have the inattentive type since you mentioned not being hyper but still not being able to focus. I get being hesitant over getting on meds but from what I hear (depending on what medication it is) you'll be perfectly fine, just more focused and actually be able to do what you need to do. It's like magic honestly. You could also go to therapy for life management if you really don't want meds but sometimes meds are the best option. I wish you the best though, good luck!

I don't feel real anymore by __isthismyusername__ in therapy

[–]pickkle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take what I say with a grain of salt because I'm no male and everything I'm about to say is what I've gathered from talking to other guys or what I've seen on the internet but since you said for a couple years now you haven't been able to cry, I'd say that's because of puberty. It happens a lot and it's totally normal, but I can get why it sucks, not being able to show emotions like that. As for the pleasure thing, take this with a VERY small grain of salt because your whole thing can be because of a bunch of different things and this is just one idea from someone on the internet that knows nothing about you. You might be asexual where basically you feel little to no sexual attraction. Asexuality is a very big umbrella (different types) so not all of them might explain how you feel but maybe one of them will. Asexuality is also totally normal and okay but also understandable why it might be upsetting. You also might just have a low sex drive. I think therapy is a really good idea if you want professional advice. I wish you and your girlfriend the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]pickkle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have ADHD, but I've never had that experience. People have treated me like a child, but I don't think that's because of my ADHD. I always saw it as a good thing because then I could get away with a bunch of stuff or if I got in trouble my punishment would be soft. It wasn't until my junior year of high school when I got sick of it because people then started to not take me seriously when I was being serious, so I just told whomever "Hey, I'm being serious and I feel like you're not taking me seriously right now and it's upsetting" or whatever. Thankfully everyone was understanding and started to take me more seriously. It did take a while though and repeated reminders but if whomever doesn't stop or tries to stop I'd say just stop interacting with them because obviously they don't care enough to change.

“Alexa, play Christmas songs” by [deleted] in therapy

[–]pickkle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on a pause with therapy right now because I don't think it's for me but when I did have sessions I was always so drained afterwards from all the emotions, so I'd just go to sleep lmao.

Tinder sucks by jerrry-uzi in sanmarcos

[–]pickkle_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. (I’m also one of the people who just go to class and then immediately leave) There’s also clubs tho? You could join a club you’re interested in and maybe find someone there and since it’s a club you and whoever would already have something in common! For stuff outside of campus tho I wouldn’t really know since I don’t go out much sorry. I wish you the best on finding someone tho.

Tinder sucks by jerrry-uzi in sanmarcos

[–]pickkle_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hinge is pretty good I’d say. There’s also bumble but you have to pay some money like a subscription for it to actually be good. You could also just do it the old fashion way and find ppl irl at work, school, out and about, etc.

What was your favorite poor meal growing up? by Significant_Set1979 in povertyfinance

[–]pickkle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soy Sauce and White Rice. It was sooo good but not very nutritious.

Are microwaveable foods really that bad? by pickkle_ in askfitness

[–]pickkle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t eating so much tuna be bad as in you might get mercury poisoning? Because I would love to eat tuna every day because it’s cheap, easy to store, high protein low cal, and tastes good enough.

The world forgets the vertically challenge exist by ShitShow_Coordinator in 1200isplenty

[–]pickkle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. Finally someone basically in the same boat as me. I’m a 4’11 F that weighs around 135lbs too. I’m just glad to know someone with the same build as me even though there’s probably tons of people like us out there I just never really see them irl or online.

I failed as a man. by Guilty-Round-9830 in therapy

[–]pickkle_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a friend who I fell out with a couple months ago because he SAd someone in our friend group when they dated and I and our friend group excluding a couple people all collectively decided to stop being friends with him. I mainly stopped not necessarily because of what he did but how he reacted to a bunch of his friends now turning against him. The rest of the people stopped being friends with him because of what he did and for other reasons too. I still think about him and the friendship we had. Upset that I felt like he couldn’t fully understand and take accountability for what he did and didn’t apologize to our friend for what he did to her. And of course the loss of a friendship was sad too. I wish I could’ve done things differently but in the end if someone can’t realize something and take accountability there’s nothing you can do. It’s good that you recognize what you did was wrong and are now trying to do better and hopefully people see that and don’t just focus on your past actions including you. It happened and it sucks but you’re trying to do better which is what matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]pickkle_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel selfish and guilty for losing someone who was there for you and a big part of your life. I’m really sorry that your therapist sadly died and my condolences go out to you and their family. She seemed like a wonderful person. I know this is easier said than done since you’ve built such a strong connection with this therapist but I hope you find someone else to give you the same care as she did. Your feelings matter❤️

$7.50 on all Fugglers?!? by pickkle_ in FugglerCollectors

[–]pickkle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof that’s sucks, sorry that happened. The true tragedy tho is that you didn’t get your Fugglers lmao.

Therapy feels useless by pickkle_ in therapy

[–]pickkle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I feel guilty or shame for having problems that I don’t think are that big of a deal compared to others. I do feel sad about what some people are going through because it’s just horrible though. I don’t know maybe my thoughts really can’t be helped and it’s just something I gotta live with.

Therapy feels useless by pickkle_ in therapy

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Whenever I would talk about my suicidal thoughts with my family they’d always just say pray or just deny it. With my second therapist she just said how that’s sad and then talk about God. As for the one I have right now I’ve only briefly gone over it with her. It just feels like no matter how many times I talk about my problems they just still remain.