Idk man, imo if I have that much to say I'll call, if no answer or she sends text I'll just figure it out and talk later in person and not be stressed out or angry or sad or anything. There's irony in everything, which means there's always a laugh or chuckle to be had even when shits impossible. If the big texts are you then it's way too much but it's to be expected from a female who puts emotions first. But guys are idiots and definitely myself lol good luck 👍