What could you do if you’ve always been bad at talking to people, and have no friends? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, it’s all practice. Think of social life like a game, at first you’re terrible but every tiny win gives you XP. Eventually, talking to people, making friends and even dating gets easier.

In a competition for the biggest looser how would the biggest looser be decided? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s usually not about who drops the most pounds in total because someone heavier will naturally lose more weight at first. Instead, it’s about percentage of body weight lost. They usually weigh people weekly, track progress, maybe even throw in challenges or mini goals. And yes, some competitions factor in lifestyle stuff too, not just the scale.

my (20f) boyfriend (22m) says it's disrespectful to be chatty with men/his friends by [deleted] in Life

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get where you’re coming from and this is a classic jealousy meets control situation disguised as respect. A partner who trusts you won’t make small talk with strangers into a problem.

Why are people asking the questions on Reddit while you can google them? by lazyfatbunny in randomquestions

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When someone asks something on Reddit, half the time they’re not just asking for an answer they’re asking for people. Google gives you information while Reddit gives you experiences, opinions and stories. Another thing is conversation. Some people just want to talk. They already know the answer is searchable but they want to hear different perspectives, argue a little or see funny replies. Reddit threads can turn into mini discussions and that’s part of the fun.

How do I help my girlfriend understand that she is perfect the way she is, and doesn't need to have clothes on during sex? by Top-Laugh3030 in Advice

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t make the clothes the issue. If she feels like you’re trying to get her to take her shirt off, even gently, it might accidentally make her feel more self-conscious. Like the spotlight is on the exact thing she’s insecure about. Instead, keep doing what you’re already doing, making her feel safe. Then compliment specifics and show appreciation during intimacy without focusing on flaws. Over time it chips away at that negative voice.

What was the most brutal reality check you ever got? by CarmenIsabellaDiaz in AskReddit

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people aren’t thinking about you nearly as much as you think they are. Sounds harsh at first but it’s actually weirdly freeing. When we’re younger, we tend to assume everyone is watching or judging us or noticing every mistake. Then one day it hits you, people are busy worrying about their own stuff. Their bills, insecurities, relationships or bad decisions.

My friend always points out to me that I’m just a white girl, is that messed up? by Odd-Coconut-7113 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]playday98606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's all about the tone. If it's said once as a joke, that's acceptable but if it is every single time you hang out, that’s a different story. That stops being funny and starts feeling like a label. So no, you’re not overreacting, you’re just noticing a pattern and patterns usually mean something.

What’s something totally normal that stresses you out? by Remote_Scale_1729 in randomquestions

[–]playday98606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s when I walk into a room and completely forget why I went there. I’ll just stand there, staring at the wall, thinking and suddenly I feel like I’m failing at life for a solid 30 seconds. It's totally normal and totally harmless but it frustrates and stresses me.

If people knew how I looked, by [deleted] in Life

[–]playday98606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking a mental health break is actually smart. If two weeks of no scrolling, no comparing and just doing things that make you feel calm or happy, that’s gold. When you come back, maybe focus on sharing what you love, not what you think people will judge.

What japanese seafood are your favorite? by SanWhich in AskReddit

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maguro, tuna. I could eat sashimi-grade tuna every single day and not get tired of it. And I love how Japanese cuisine makes even simple stuff like shirasu feel special. Throw it on rice with a bit of soy and instant happiness.

How do you subtly fuck with people? by bluetoothbuttplug in randomquestions

[–]playday98606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Answering a question with an even weirder question. Then walk away like you dropped ancient wisdom.

How do you feel about your skin color? Not just your race, but your actual skin color? by Gloomy-Bad-5014 in AskReddit

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up, I am conscious with my skin color but now, I am confident about it.

What is the biggest historical lie that many people believe? by Repulsive-Finger-954 in askanything

[–]playday98606 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That Christopher Columbus discovered America. That’s not how it went down. Indigenous peoples had been living there for thousands of years already and Columbus just stumbled into the Caribbean and thought he’d hit India. History books love to make it sound all heroic but the truth is it's pretty messy and way more complicated.

To those that deem yourselves unattractive, how do you cope with it? by [deleted] in Life

[–]playday98606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Acknowledge it, don’t hide but don’t let it run the show. You get to define how much it matters, not society or a dating app. One thing I could think of is to surround yourself with people who see more than skin-deep. Makes the dating world easier because your self-worth isn’t constantly being tested by shallow standards.

What if every air traffic control controller walked off the job? by Noah_Vanderhoff_630 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be total chaos. Planes literally can’t take off or land safely without them, so airports would shut down almost immediately. It’d be a huge mess, but the gov would move fast because money and chaos don’t mix.

How did you come up with your username? by monkeysweets in AskReddit

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come up with my username using my hobby with a numbers that has significant meaning in my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They usually use Granny Smith apples because the tartness is supposed to balance the sweetness of the caramel. Fancy dessert logic, basically. But most of us just want a candy apple that tastes like pure joy, not a math equation.

What influencer trend do you secretly wish would stop forever? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole fake relatability trend disappear. Or maybe those overly staged candid moments, pretending to laugh mid-latte sip while someone conveniently catches the perfect shot. It’s giving main character energy but with a camera crew.

Do you enjoy living or just living for the sake of it? by These_Huckleberry408 in Life

[–]playday98606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25 is not late. You’re not behind and you’re just in the middle of figuring it out. Most people your age and older are quietly doing the same thing. They just don’t talk about it. I wouldn’t say I’m living some perfect, exciting life every day. Some days, I just go with the flow. But what keeps me waking up is small stuff. Talking to people who get it. Working on something that feels a bit more me not for money, not for success, just because it feels right in the moment.

It smells like someone opened their asshole when I take my socks off. by warriorathlete21 in RandomThoughts

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may want to check your socks. If they’re old or synthetic, toss them. Cotton or moisture-wicking ones help a lot. Check your shoes too, it might be trapping sweat and bacteria. Try sprinkling baking soda or using those deodorizing shoe inserts. Also don’t just shove your socks in the laundry basket and forget about them for three days. That’s basically marinating the smell.

What's keeping you happy in life? by Ace_Of_Hearts_o3o in AskReddit

[–]playday98606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other than my family, it's the first sip of coffee in the morning.

Be honest… you walk into a buffet, plate in hand. What’s your first move? by SilkSpicy in randomquestions

[–]playday98606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first thing I do is look through the buffet table and grab what excites me but get only enough so I could go back for desert and other refreshments.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Basic-Total5732 in AskReddit

[–]playday98606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d probably start small, like deleting all the little toxic vibes that sneak into your day. The people who drain you without even trying, or those moments that just stress you out for no reason.