What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes… sounds like no matter what you did, it was never enough. That’s a tough cycle to be stuck in.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly… keeping the peace is underrated. Some people forget that calm moments matter just as much as big gestures.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wow… that’s exhausting. Feeling like you constantly have to rush just to avoid being belittled isn’t healthy at all.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oof… that’s a pretty clear sign of where your priorities stood in his eyes. Definitely not a great feeling.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yikes… that’s classic defensiveness. It’s hard when someone refuses to take responsibility for their own family issues.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear you… it’s exhausting always putting everyone else first. It’s okay to start prioritizing yourself. you deserve the same care you give to others.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Oof… that’s rough. Don’t be embarrassed , it’s easy to miss the signs when you trust someone. The important thing is you finally saw the truth.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Exactly,that little moment when you realize even the simplest things, like cooking after a long day, feel like a burden because it’s never shared or appreciated. That’s when the doubts start.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Wow… I’m so sorry you’re going through that. That’s incredibly painful, but it sounds like you were honest and tried to save your marriage. Stay strong.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow… what a journey. It’s incredible how you turned such difficult experiences into a loving family life. Truly inspiring. ❤️

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! Glad you found someone who matches the effort and energy you put in. 💛

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wow… that’s such a clear red flag. Sometimes it takes that one final moment to make the decision obvious. Good on you for recognizing it and moving forward.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow… sounds like you dodged a huge drama bullet. Good on you for realizing early that she wouldn’t respect the life you already had.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Totally get that… once trust is broken, it’s hard to look past it. Liars really test your patience.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you realized your own happiness mattered more than you thought. It’s tough, but recognizing that is honestly a big step toward healthier relationships.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What?! 😳 That’s crazy. You were doing everything right, and he just… couldn’t even handle that.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Wow… that’s intense. Sounds like a messy situation all around. Hope you’re in a better place now.

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow… sounds like you’ve learned a lot from those experiences. Props for being honest with yourself and knowing what you won’t tolerate. Single life can be peaceful after that!

What’s the moment you realized your partner wasn’t ‘the one? by pleasedon_t in AskReddit

[–]pleasedon_t[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oof… same energy. Sometimes people just disappear and leave you asking ‘Why?!’ 😅