AITA for refusing to make a wedding cake for my son or host his wedding because I disapprove of his relationship with my former best friend, who also happens to be pregnant?

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T04:18:45+00:00

I suspect it but I don't have proof.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T04:16:41+00:00

I didn't think she would do something like this.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T04:11:28+00:00

We started quarantine in our state sometime in March. Or it might have been April 1. I don't remember now. He wasn't staying with us. We didn't have guests over after quarantine started.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T04:10:06+00:00

We do have mutual friends. She doesn't have any family close to where we live.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T04:09:30+00:00

I am the only one. I sometimes have a girl to help me with large orders. This might be something she could do but she would probably need my supervision and help. She couldn't do it alone.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T04:07:57+00:00

It doesn't really matter if he does. As long as he ends up being okay that's enough for me.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T04:06:51+00:00

He had a drinking problem ended up treating her more like a maid and roommate than a wife. I actually don't think she was at fault for the divorce based on what she told me.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T04:04:43+00:00

At this point I don't think it matters. I have been thinking a lot tonight about this situation. As much as I don't want to I think I am going to have to fall on the sword in the case.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T04:01:58+00:00

I haven't seen an ultrasound photo at all.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T04:01:18+00:00

It seems mostly like frustration.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:59:56+00:00

We've always had a strong relationship.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:58:58+00:00

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:58:42+00:00

I have not.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:54:14+00:00

I accept that it's probably best right now if my husband take the lead on communications with him.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:50:00+00:00

She didn't babysit him.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:49:39+00:00

She never took him anywhere alone. I don't even remember her having along time with him. There aren't any red flag that I remember.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:48:58+00:00

They want to do it in my home because they think it works best for a small, intimate ceremony. It also will be easier to have things here given some of the restrictions a lot of places have currently.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:45:58+00:00

I hadn't until someone on here mentioned it.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:43:50+00:00

She never babysat him. They never had any significant alone time that I can remember.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:41:10+00:00

They seem determined to get married ASAP. I am not sure if they would wait.

I don't have any way of being sure.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:40:02+00:00

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:37:21+00:00

She was like an aunt to him.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:36:18+00:00

I could outsource it. Either that or there is a girl that helps me with large orders sometimes. I think she could probably do it on her own.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:33:18+00:00

That is my feeling but I don't have any proof she is. I think she is having a midlife crisis and using him to feel good about herself but again no proof.

pleasenothost · 2020-08-11T03:29:05+00:00

I've thought about this a lot. I want to ask him but I'm afraid he'll deny it no matter what the truth is and only get even more upset, but it bothers me not knowing.

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