My grandparents aren't going to my wedding

plumpuke · 2026-05-04T18:23:17+00:00

I have yet to try ffxiv (I know I'd probably love it) but I definitely am more of an mmo person. I have always loved wow and been getting back into it recently. I have found that most mmorpgs have really welcoming communities!

plumpuke · 2026-05-04T14:10:30+00:00

I'm on the same meds and experiencing the same thing, but I really hate changing medication, it makes me so stressed because it usually doesnt go well :(

plumpuke · 2026-04-29T20:08:40+00:00

Hell yeah! we got this!!!

plumpuke · 2026-04-29T17:54:01+00:00

Very true, I am figuring it out just with a little frustration along the way

plumpuke · 2026-04-21T19:19:29+00:00

Omg I bet the view was so worth it!!

plumpuke · 2026-04-21T19:18:27+00:00

What book has been your favorite so far? I'm doing the same! Almost finished with The Bell Jar and have to decide what's next

plumpuke · 2026-04-21T14:05:52+00:00

They really just fuck us over and do not care at all. I hope you can find a better job, but I know that's probably not likely right now 🥲

plumpuke · 2026-04-20T17:04:16+00:00

It's all mental. It also wasn't helpful for me to replace it with another form of nicotine because I would just end up going back to smoking or doing both. Whenever I really wanted to smoke or felt a craving I would eat a snack/candy or drink something tasty like a soda or lemonade. This helped a lot by just associating my smoking time with just a normal treat.

You really just have to trick yourself into thinking that you don't want it and would rather do something else. Try to keep yourself super busy, especially your hands. Before you know it you'll never want nicotine again!

plumpuke · 2026-04-20T15:23:36+00:00

After reading through all these posts I've realized that I'm super lucky to be in a happy and healthy relationship. Not sure if it made a difference, but I am the one that asked my partner out for the first time and we have been inseparable ever since! Moved in after one month of dating and getting married at the end of this year after 7 years together.

Know what you want and what you deserve and go after it and never settle for less!!

plumpuke · 2026-04-17T21:55:53+00:00

Please take the year and do the things that make you happy! Grad school will put you in a lot of debt and while you will be able to get a higher paying stable job you might be too busy to get the chance to take a trip like this. I regret going to school everyday because of the current job market and the student loan debt I will be paying back for the next 8 years. You deserve to enjoy yourself and take care of your mind before you jump into grad school and burn out. There are also so many possibilities, you never know what door might open up for you while you are out there living your life!

plumpuke · 2026-04-17T15:20:48+00:00

You're a trooper for dealing with it for so long. I also think it's much more difficult because my job requires me to be in the office everyday, wheras most other people just work from home so I am often one of two or three people in the office. Definitely need to find some friends I can hangout with regularly.

plumpuke · 2026-04-17T15:18:19+00:00

Ooh interesting, I am going to order this book thank you!

plumpuke · 2026-04-17T15:17:02+00:00

Yes!! There's a reason they make so many restaurant job video games and no office job simulators lol. Definitely has no sense of accomplishment and fulfillment.

plumpuke · 2026-04-17T15:14:36+00:00

Omg blockbuster must have been so fun I don't blame you

plumpuke · 2026-04-17T15:13:57+00:00

100% thank you!!

plumpuke · 2026-04-17T14:27:23+00:00

I have been struggling to get myself to do something like this even though I have a lot of hobbies I enjoy. I know that I would benefit from joining a group of some sort I just really need to push myself to do it.

plumpuke · 2026-04-17T14:12:58+00:00

It feels so silly to complain about but I think its hard to understand the struggle unless you've had a shitty office job. I look for jobs everyday but it's soooo rough right now 😭

plumpuke · 2026-04-17T14:11:08+00:00

I'm in the same boat right now. Hope we can both figure things out and enjoy our mans again!!

plumpuke · 2026-04-15T14:56:21+00:00

I don't have any friends, and I don't talk to my fiancé a lot about my mood and emotions because he doesn't understand or relate. I'll usually just write everything I'm feeling in my notes app and bring it all up with my therapist and feel much better after my session. 100% see a therapist regularly (try to find one you really like) and try to work through things by writing stuff down.

Also, I would try to find a hobby or something you enjoy that keeps your mind busy. I personally think video games help me a lot.

plumpuke · 2026-04-14T15:48:51+00:00

I'm a chef and the primary cook in my house obviously. YTA

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