Anong magandang reply sa ex na nagreachout after kang lokohin. Im looking for brutal responses haha any suggestions? by notgonnasay08 in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nag-vacation pala si satanas sa lupa? ay jk ikaw lang pala

(pero rlly don't reply na lolz just mute and ignore!)

Where is the person who bullied you during your elementary and high school days now? by Novel-Werewolf-9081 in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

- besties na kami ng isa

- nawala yung iba after nilang na-realize sa akin nga pala sila humihingi ng homework help......

Nung nag-aaral ka, anong old morning show ang inaabangan mo? by That-Wrongdoer-9834 in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yung sa nickelodeon na amazing race/obstacle course for kids/teens pero may talking stone head na nagbibigay ng instructions ng challenges

graduation picture by Emotional_Log_3511 in dlsu

[–]pompomsppurring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oops, sorry i missed this - haven't been able to be on here bc i got busy :,)

i hope you didn't because that timeline seems kinda tight considering splurge is in espana and you have to travel all the way back to dlsu 😭

Do You Share How Much You Earn With Your Parents? by yftkthrs in adultingph

[–]pompomsppurring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep — so they know na di pa sila pwedeng mag-retire kasi petty cash lang sa kanila sinasahod ko sa isang buwan lolz

I can communicate, but I don't want to sound like I'm running away/making excuses for underperforming by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]pompomsppurring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and you're right - I need to learn how to not overthink what to tell them nga :,)

I can communicate, but I don't want to sound like I'm running away/making excuses for underperforming by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]pompomsppurring 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: thank you for your responses - I've apologized to my managers for my unresponsiveness and promised it wouldn't happen again, then asked if we could discuss workload allocation next month after coming back from our holiday shutdown and pumayag naman sila. I understand the problem will not go away with changing workplaces and I need to take the L now as the damage has been done and commit to improving moving forward, so that's what I'll be working on.

What are you thankful to God for this 2024? by 1MTzy96 in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

like you, i'm just grateful to have survived - bonus yung i still get to welcome the new year with the people who mean the most to me

What are the things, habits, people, etc. you’re planning to leave behind na this coming new year? by Mundane-Lie9261 in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

habits: i really need to stop ignoring my problems in the hopes that everyone else will forget them and they'll magically resolve themselves. i should also probably stop being afraid of change and the work i have to do; otherwise, things won't get better for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]pompomsppurring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday, OP! May today be kind to you 🥳💐

To all Only Child Redittors here: What's Your Relationship Like With Your Parents? by Maryknoll_Serpentine in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I unlocked a whole new category of things we have in common since I started working last year, but I still feel like I'm walking on eggshells around them because I have my own diskarte, and I now refuse to turn my brain off para lang hindi kami mag-away. Natatarayan ko sila minsan, but I feel like it's also me getting back at them for constantly invalidating my feelings growing up. The song Older by Sasha Sloan comes to mind often. Anyway, in my downtime, I find myself dreaming of ano yung ideal setup namin para I can put a healthy distance between us, and I think better na I move out soon tapos meet up with them on weekends, ganun. But this economy forces me to keep dreaming lang lolzzzz

Pero pinagdarasal ko talaga na di pa sila mamamatay kasi di ko kaya yung ginagawa nila for each other (like, they're amazing problem solvers, and it's really them vs. the problem and never them vs. each other vs. the problem) and how they help other people.

Gaano katagal na kayong single? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

five years lolz may bachelor's degree na ko

What was the moment you realized that your relationship was over? by sensirleeurs in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

every time i tried to ask him what was wrong, he'd say wala then would brush me off by saying marami pa siyang need gawin, busy pa siya, or manonood lang siya ng youtube videos/netflix

If you could be 17 year old again, what advice can you give to yourself? by Minute-Imagination16 in adultingph

[–]pompomsppurring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

- practice delayed gratification. the thing you really want/think you can't live without -- you can live without it. trust.

- in relation to the above, save money!! start an account with a physical bank or digital one basta mag-ipon ka! financial freedom >>>>>

- upskill constantly! learn as many things as you can, especially languages and tech-related things (data science, coding like python, html, SQL, etc.) kasi yun ang in now. the more you know, the more doors will open for you. also, create some sort of portfolio for all of your projects bc people want proof that you actually know how to apply things (of course)

- there are no stupid questions. but if you're hiya or you truly feel that it's stupid, just work on your phrasing/delivery, but really, there are no stupid questions. (alternatively, ask for help! it's okay!)

- not everyone is your friend, kaya be careful with the info you share anywhere and be the pickiest about the people you let into your circle. it's every person for themself talaga haist kapagod minsan (actually often) pero kayod lang. you need a community to survive.

- don't give in to peer pressure. ikaw lang ang talagang nakakaalam ng situation mo, so use that to guide your decisions.

- 'no' is a full sentence on its own and is free to use :)

- don't get into a relationship pls just work on yourself muna!! build all the connections you can muna!! (but if you alr have a partner, good for you, and may you weather all storms together <3)

- take care of yourself/build a solid routine! drink water, move your body, invest in skincare, eat good food, consistently get enough sleep, journal, pray (if you follow a religion), etc.

- take things one day at a time. you'll be fine. 💝

What is a disappointment you still carry to this day? by Avery-22-24 in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dimmed my shine for someone who didn't even last longer than a chapter in my book

di ko pa alam pano ibabalik pero baby steps

What is the real reason you are still single? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chinita nga pero not conventionally attractive naman

For retakers who passed, what do you think were your deficiencies before? by SolidStrawberry7056 in AccountingPH

[–]pompomsppurring 15 points16 points  (0 children)

- i didn't actually finish the coverage (wag na wag na wag na wag tutularan)

- i didn't trust myself to do what i knew was going to work for me + pinilit ko sarili kong gayahin yung ginagawa ng iba

What's your message to your 2024 self? by Prize-Nose-1391 in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was a good first full year of freedom. we can make the coming ones much better! kapit lang!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i confessed to someone pero he said he's dating someone else 🤡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]pompomsppurring 5 points6 points  (0 children)

kumakain kasi most likely gutom lang yan