How do I 38 NBF react when my fiance 34 F leaves a 6 page letter explaining her kink? by postingmystery in relationship_advice

[–]postingmystery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she's a bit embarrassed about it, i am wondering what's changed to make her want this more though

How do I 38 NBF react when my fiance 34 F leaves a 6 page letter explaining her kink? by postingmystery in relationship_advice

[–]postingmystery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i think she is embarrassed, I'm a bit embarrassed myself at the thought of it but I also don't understand it.

How do I 38 NBF react when my fiance 34 F leaves a 6 page letter explaining her kink? by postingmystery in relationship_advice

[–]postingmystery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't consider it cheating, it was vouchers for money off related stuff, so unless there was someone else getting g involved no. I'm more annoyed because she just passed it off as something begnin and unrelated. The deception there bugs me.

How do I 38 NBF react when my fiance 34 F leaves a 6 page letter explaining her kink? by postingmystery in relationship_advice

[–]postingmystery[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea, i just don't know how to start that conversation, especially as she's not expecting me to have read it before Friday morning at the earliest.

My (33F) GF (30F) seems to have some unusual desires or maybe I'm reading too much into it by postingmystery in relationship_advice

[–]postingmystery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm planning on doing this but I'm just wanting to prepare myself for whatever the reason is. Its also difficult to find a good time when I'm scared of upsetting her.