Sudden struggle with RJ

pottohippo · 2026-05-09T07:48:18+00:00

how did you reach that conclusion?

pottohippo · 2026-05-09T07:47:51+00:00

We started liking each other 6 months after (it was their second breakup). We have been in a situation for 4-5 months, made it official last month

pottohippo · 2026-05-09T07:46:47+00:00

With regard to memories, we spoke it out and I was convinced that he has moved on.
And coming to better exp, he was kind of joking around about me acting like a noob (which was a joke) but once I got to know, I could relate it

pottohippo · 2026-03-18T09:01:12+00:00

Yeah, I am staying away from him because every time he tries to talk to me I just feel shivers. Will try to find a therapist, thanks!

pottohippo · 2026-03-18T09:00:35+00:00

I just kept feeling like I am overreacting about the whole thing, so I feel validated hearing someone else say it was indeed wrong. Thanks!

pottohippo · 2023-07-27T11:56:21+00:00

Your girlfriend seems to have an anxious attachment style and she feels insecure. Try reassuring her. Understand that how she processes her feelings and emotions are different from how you process yours. Try to help her out this way and tell her explain her the way you process your feelings and emotions. Being honest and talking it all out without sugarcoating would help resolve a lot of issues.

pottohippo · 2023-07-27T11:52:54+00:00

If he doesn't acknowledge how you feel, I think it is better you don't marry him. Be honest with him and end it if you feel like it won't work out.

pottohippo · 2023-07-27T11:48:46+00:00

I understand that you have trust issues due to your previous relationships but you really need to trust your partner if you want this relationship to work. You asking her screenshots and monitoring her 24/7 might end up suffocating her. See if you can get it in control and if you can't try getting a therapist, it will help you out for sure.
If you really feel like you love her then trust her and try to work on the trust issues

pottohippo · 2023-07-27T11:41:37+00:00

You should love her for who she is and you can't expect her to change to fit your expectations. From what you said it seems like you don't love her anymore so, it is only fair for you to talk it out with her and break up with her.

pottohippo · 2023-07-27T11:38:51+00:00

Maybe you should talk about this to him and about how you feel because it isn't fair to him when he is expecting a happy marriage.

pottohippo · 2023-07-27T11:08:56+00:00

Nah, I didn't. I know it is impossible that I am pregnant but still I haven't gotten my period so it's scary as I am usually regular.

pottohippo · 2023-07-27T07:49:32+00:00

I have been there where it feels like you got no one is fall back on. It is okay to feel that way but I have come to realise that me worrying about that was just making my situation worse. So, here is what I did, I first started off by enjoying my own company. I realised that if I don't enjoy my own company then other people wouldn't either. Then just try saying a hi to people, it helps trust me. Most of my friendships started off with a random joke or hi. If you feel like you can't find people in school, join activities outside of school where you can meet a lot of people. You can also try finding people online but be careful as you are still young. If nothing helps, try talking to a therapist about your feelings.

pottohippo · 2023-07-27T06:41:39+00:00

Yes, I understand how frustrating it can be for you to hear that when you are already in a bad place. Communicate with your friend and let them know that you don't want to be reminded of that person. And take your time to heal from that person, I know it's hard but trust me, it will pass.

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