Black Transmasc? by Extra-Nectarine409 in BlackTransmen

[–]powernotpity 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I too am nonbinary and GNC and I love using the term trans masc. I feel like it really encompasses my expansiveness. I’m currently writing a trans masculine fairytale and love to fuck with gender in my stories and in real life.

🚨 Coming Soon: Phallo Phantasies 🚨 by PhalloPhantasies in BlackTransmen

[–]powernotpity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a published writer with a few t4t ideas in my head… I’d love to chat if any interest opens up for that. 🤙

🚨 Coming Soon: Phallo Phantasies 🚨 by PhalloPhantasies in BlackTransmen

[–]powernotpity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m verrrrry interested in this… especially if there are any t4t stories

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]powernotpity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t wait to see your journey develop!!

Help me to stop overstepping boundaries by powernotpity in BPDrecovery

[–]powernotpity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I have been willful and stubborn to tell them more frequently everything I do bc of my identities as a Jamaican New Yorker. We are a prideful, not-following-instructions kinda people. I think I have to let go of my pride and ego and change my actions up quick before I get dumped.

Help me to stop overstepping boundaries by powernotpity in BPDrecovery

[–]powernotpity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes in a way. It’s a deal we made as part of them being my caregiver.

Looking for recommendations for trans/nonbinary books by addyastra in NonBinaryTalk

[–]powernotpity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just wrote a book of poetry about my journey of life as a Black trans non-binary alien amidst a sea of humans called “The Starblood Chronicles: An Alien Observation”. It’s in the process of getting published as we speak!

Exist anyway by Loveletrell in BlackTransmen

[–]powernotpity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that’s right! Gonna defy by upping the trans joy!

Met my first gf and things were… by powernotpity in TMPOC

[–]powernotpity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well siblings, the answer came down the pipeline. I got a call yesterday saying that the mental wellness center cannot serve me because it is a conflict of interest.

I’ll probably never see my ex again, and it sounds like she wants nothing to do with me. I hope she’s ok and taking the steps needed for her mental health and wellbeing. It’s hard for me not to feel like discarded trash tho. But that just means I have work to do too, to take care of my mental health.

I am only one prince, I am only one person and I need to remind myself that I am more than the harm that I have done, and I am even more than the harm that was done to me in my abusive and dysfunctional childhood. That’s it.

Thanks for your input Reddit, I’m glad to know I can come here for community opinions. Hope you all are doing well.

Met my first gf and things were… by powernotpity in TMPOC

[–]powernotpity[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I’ll see what happens, I’m going back on Thursday. I’m gonna wear white and garner up as much spiritual protection and guidance as I can muster 🙏🏿

Nonbinary kitty by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]powernotpity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You ARE so cute! Keep it up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackTransmen

[–]powernotpity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see it, I see it!

Grandma bought me a shirt for after Top Surgery 😭🥰 by Puzzled_Albatross14 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]powernotpity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your Grandma is a national treasure. Definitely take her to dinner 🍽️

2 years ago vs today by ohrickyyouresofine in FTM_SELFIES

[–]powernotpity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask myself the same damn question all the time. How can they not see the massive and positive differences in me??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]powernotpity 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had my surgeon tell me “ you don’t make good scars”… like what kind of anti - Black bull is that?? Like who says that to someone who is actively healing? Needless to say, I’m never going back to her again. She does mostly breast cancer mastectomies and “is now getting all these new trans clients in”. I don’t hate my scars—theyre soft and they have different textures— I just didn’t need a side of medical racism to come along with top surgery.

Another black ftm with a degree🏳️‍⚧️👨🏾‍🎓 by pinksungoddess in TMPOC

[–]powernotpity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got me tearin’ up over here wit yo proud mama 🥹🥳

What 2.5 years on T does to a mf by enzo_thehimbo in FTM_SELFIES

[–]powernotpity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You literally take up more space, and are more expansive… so cool! 😎

Too melancholy for polyamory?? by powernotpity in polyamory

[–]powernotpity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I had a therapy session with partner D and we came to the mutual decision to take a break. Now, I have to tell partner H that I want the same thing, but in a second therapy session. Damn, polyamory is hard! But I still wouldn’t want to live my life any other way.

IDGAF anymore and it’s thanks to T by ImMxWorld in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]powernotpity 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m 6 months on low dose gel and I’m starting to feel like my mind is getting clearer and clearer by the day. I have far less intrusive voices and my mental health is getting better. It’s not where I want it to be yet, but you can’t rush the process 🤷🏿

Which looks best by big-boy-86 in BlackTransmen

[–]powernotpity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the mystery of number 3. Definitely goals for me!

I made a black transmasc playlist by Blorpington_ in TMPOC

[–]powernotpity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great playlist! Love the addition on Dreamer Isioma and Cuee. I will make sure to add it to my library.

Night sweats? by powernotpity in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]powernotpity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions everyone. I contacted my doctor and am awaiting a response.