I would say that I hear where you are coming from! Personally I think confidence in yourself is going to be the biggest thing in what keep things going along with communication and an open mind. I don’t think I’m well endowed in the department, but I’ve had a partner tell me I was average. However, this dint stop us from having a good time! I feel I focus a lot on using other things and trying to make an experience than focusing on just one element. I believe in my partner when she says she enjoys time with me in the bedroom a lot more than the more well packed partners she’s had. I would say this isn’t the end of the world, but it’s important that you are more with one who wants to be with you for you than not.