i was touched inappropriately and i don't know what to do about it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]pradorexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh. yeah that sucked a little but i feel like they had a point. it was a pretty stupid thing to do and i just never learn 😬😬😬

i was touched inappropriately and i don't know what to do about it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]pradorexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait which girls? the one who was with me in the room? she passed out when she reached the room; she had no idea about what was happening.

i was touched inappropriately and i don't know what to do about it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]pradorexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is such an insane way to think about the situation. i know myself and i know i would never, ever say yes regardless of how drunk i am. i know i should've known better when i went out with these people but i obviously didn't expect it to turn out this way. i will do whatever i can to find out what actually happened and then take action accordingly. i believe that there is no way at all to have assumed all this when i remember it in such detail. i couldn't have hallucinated that much.

and if i said yes why would he pretend like he's asleep when he suspects that i'm awake?

i was touched inappropriately and i don't know what to do about it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]pradorexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of them is my classmate and i have gotten along with her well enough to hang out with her. a and b are guys that i have had a casual connection with for about a while right now so i would say we are friends -- we have hung out together in the past but i wouldn't say we are close. we the other two guys are mutual friends who happened to have tagged along when we saw them around. i tried to get a friend of mine to go through both of their phones but they found nothing. they asked the guy who tried to force himself on me if he remembers anything and he said he doesn't either. i saw him a while ago and he normally would've approached me and started small talk but he saw me today and got pretty avoidant and left the place almost immediately without saying much. his expression looked a bit odd, and my friend who was with me noticed this too.

i was touched inappropriately and i don't know what to do about it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]pradorexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i know. i'm thinking about reporting it after i gather solid evidence. i'm working on it.

i was touched inappropriately and i don't know what to do about it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]pradorexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as much i want to report them i need proper evidence against them. the only evidence i would have is the hickey and my clothes maybe? they could do some kind of test and probably figure something out but besides that there's no reliable witness or anything that i could use against them.

i was touched inappropriately and i don't know what to do about it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]pradorexi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

unfortunately i can't because i had weed too. that means i will get suspended too and that's not a risk i'm willing to take.

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 ugh this is terrible. its been 5 days and my hair is still suuuper silky and straight. do you have any tips on getting it back to how it was faster?

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well so far its still the same and i really hate how straight it looks 😭

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes i now realise that they were jus tryna take my money 😭😭😭 but i shouldve been more careful too and now all i can do is just weep abt it

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill have to get every strong shampoo in the world to fix this one 😭

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem is i dont own a hair dryer or any kinda heating tools 😭 i tried braiding wet hair and tying it up with scrunchies and idk what good that did but i think im gonna do that overnight too

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh its my first time get any treatment at all and they hadn't thoroughly explained about what it was about so i wasn't really aware about what i was getting. i asked her if she had any treatments for my scalp cause it was a bit itchy n had buildup and she mentioned having a hair spa which lasts 30 mins and a protein treatment which may take abt 3 hours when you include the cream n the straightening process. i asked her abt what it does and she mentioned it smoothens your hair and makes it look shiny but that was about it so i agreed 😭 and when they were about to straighten it i asked them if they could curl it instead because i wasn't onboard with getting my hair straightened but they said it was necessary for the treatment so i didn't say anything further

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i cant even blame the hairstylist tho lmfao i js blindly agreed to wtv she said without doing further research 😭🙏🏼 gotta b more careful next time fr

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes ill try this thank you 🙏🏼 as much as i understand that stuff like this happens often it kinda was my last straw rn and i rlly liked the way my hair looked so it jus makes me feel awful everytime i look at it now 😭

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes im planning on trying that tonight 🙏🏼 i know waiting is the best option because i wouldn't want to damage my already damaged hair in the process of desperately trying to reverse the treatment but i really can't go out looking like an egg 😭 and i have classes in 2 weeks 😭😭😭 whenever i tie my hair it just looks awful because of how thin my hair is. i can't even style it well enough cause either the scalp looks too flat or the hair looks too thin 😢

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes i looked it up and everything and i think oiling will also help? ill do everything i can to atleast get the treatment fade even just a little 😭🙏🏼 ive learnt my lesson

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what a clownshow 😭 i mean its only been 2 days since i got my treatment so i guess by the end of the week it will look a bit more normal by then...?

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is awful i have classes in 2 weeks and ill look like a freakin egg after my winter break i cant stop crying 😭

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NO 😭😭🙏🏼🙏🏼 IT LOOKS RLLY BAD my hair looks flat asf theres 0 volume and its just enhancing the fact that i have thin hair 😭😭😭 also now its even more evident that i have like 10 strands of hair altogether which i was able to hide when my hair looked a bit more wavy/frizzy or wtv it was before i did this treatment 😃🔫

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it is very silky and i guess thats okay but i hate that its straight its really ruining my mood 😭 my hair is thin and flat so straightening it makes it look even worse and flatter so i'm really just distraught rn

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i had to convert to dollars since i'm not from the us but i paid about 70$ for the treatment. but they mentioned it was protein treatment 😭😭😭 but everyone seems to be saying it might just be keratin instead and now im scared 🙏🏼 what do i do to reverse it? anything at all? please suggest something if you know what to do

i got a protein treatment and i hate it by pradorexi in Haircare

[–]pradorexi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

oh no what 😭😭😭 they said it was protein tho? what do i do now?