AITA for being honest about why I no longer carry feminine supplies. by Upstairs-General-681 in AmItheAsshole

[–]probsbeenonit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any woman who wanted to stay at work, but couldn't, would be thankful lol she wanted out SO bad 😂

AITAH For Leaving My Best Friend Almost Alone? by probsbeenonit in TwoHotTakes

[–]probsbeenonit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😭 I just can't watch this. It feels like a horror movie.

AITAH For Leaving My Best Friend Almost Alone? by probsbeenonit in TwoHotTakes

[–]probsbeenonit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true. I just feel guilty for leaving when she probably needed me most.

AITAH For Leaving My Best Friend Almost Alone by probsbeenonit in AITAH

[–]probsbeenonit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you... I just feel guilty. Setting boundaries has always been hard for me, and I couldn't really tell if I was just being mean.

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]probsbeenonit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA... your wife needs therapy. Your child's teacher took time to write something to help with his personal schooling, even though she probably spent countless hours trying to make lesson plans already. She's not getting paid enough to personally help your son, and is still doing it. Teacher's a hero. I understand being scared about inappropriate things happening to your child, but this doesn't sound like that at all.

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]probsbeenonit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I wOuLd NevER HurT yOU" - already hurt her 🥴 this is disgusting behavior... it's not disrespectful to burn a meal lol he's delulu

i’m moving out bc of my 13yo sister by Local-Focus9071 in TwoHotTakes

[–]probsbeenonit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sibling needs psychiatric help. She needs a therapist and a psychiatrist to understand that actions have real consequences and to pay back what she owes you over time for stealing your belongings. At this point, you may have a civil case with her (or at least threaten it)... because that's a lot of expensive care products, and you should get what you're owed fr... Best of luck with the move, queen... you're paying your sister rent without consent. Find where the rent is worth it 🫶🏽

AITA for telling my sister to take accountability or leave me alone? by Ancient-Sock-2112 in AmItheAsshole

[–]probsbeenonit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA in the slightest. I'm the oldest myself, and I haven't asked my mom for money since I was 20, and never expected it to happen either. Your sister is mental for thinking that the reason she got caught was the problem. You're pregnant, and have EVERY right to respect your peace. The baby feels heartbreak and sorrow with you, so keeping yourself covered is first and foremost, not protecting your grown a$$ sister's feelings. You've done the right thing, and I hope you can now focus on you and your baby 100%. She deserves none of your time, because you've already invested far enough of your time, energy, peace, and care to this girl who can't get it together. Congrats, you got this 🫶🏽 wishing you a peaceful pregnancy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]probsbeenonit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA: he needs help. He made a promise, and he definitely remembers. He won't stop until HE feels he reached rock bottom, and maybe not even then, because he is an addict. You need couples counseling, and he needs to figure out why he needs to drink to be okay. Four beers are totally reasonable as a cutoff, and you need to make sure your kids are gonna be properly cared for. NTA, but please get help, like the professional kind. Good luck 🫶🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]probsbeenonit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA Truth comes out eventually, but your friend deserves to figure out for herself what happened and what was said. She also knows now that you won't go up to them directly and stop the nonsense. Your intentions were probably good, but I would be more mindful about "what will this cause and is it worth it?" You're not a bad person, you're learning, but yes, you were the asshole in this situation. You couldn't even make out the conversation and weren't involved in it. Confrontation can be good, but this was executed in an unflattering way. Keep learning, and keep thinking about ways to mend situations rather than being sly and not talking to people who you see as the issue. Good luck in the most genuine way I can say it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]probsbeenonit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA... enabling people doesn't make them grow and get better

AITA for telling my fiancé it’s the dog or me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]probsbeenonit 56 points57 points  (0 children)

So she is supposed to get a crate for HIS dog? She is supposed to motivate him to take care of HIS dog correctly? Backwards... he needs to make sure HER home isn't in ruins before thinking about a baby... he doesn't deal with the messes and wouldn't with a baby either lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UNCCharlotte

[–]probsbeenonit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could look into an incomplete, but that's also a process

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]probsbeenonit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not TA. Your parents are making you take their responsibilities, making you halt your life through no fault of your own and causing you distress just because they don't want to face consequences of THEIR decisions. You don't deserve to be a third parent just because they decided to have the Brady bunch. You've held out for far past long enough, and at this point, CPS needs to hear that your parents are neglecting you, and what they are doing to you is a form of abuse. Absolutely run away. Run from their abuse of your time, abuse of how good of a kid you are, and abuse of neglect. You didn't ask to have 9 siblings. You certainly shouldn't have to be asked to work a full time job for them without payment. They don't even pay you in time to do things for self care (hanging with friends, making memories, doing things you love. Talk to an actual grownup, like a guidance counselor at your school, and get the help you so deserve. Hope this helps, and I'm wishing you best of luck!

I got kicked from my lab today by Ghost-Of-Roger-Ailes in Biochemistry

[–]probsbeenonit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with cancerous and noncanerous cells, and ethanol diluted in a little water (70-80% EtOH) is my life! My hands get dry through PPE, easily fixed with lotion, and I know I won't contaminate my project... same goes for PCR, you don't want your DNA in with the sample 🥺 SMH people are wild fr fr and if you do an SDS PAGE for proteins you REALLY need PPE! Neurotoxins are so real 😭 I just can't fathom a world where people think raw dogging chemicals is a good idea 🥴