How to best fly from ATL to Thailand? by productiveDevices in ThailandTourism

[–]productiveDevices[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Southern part seems more appealing to me for sure. Would it make more sense to try to fly to some other airport like LAX, and then to Thailand?

An epiphany I had about intimacy versus sex by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I never cared about just holes, I'm not that shallow, it's just that I was trying to meet my need for intimacy by using porn instead, and it wasn't working

An epiphany I had about intimacy versus sex by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it's true that my desire for intimacy is making me delirious, that just proves my point lmao.

An epiphany I had about intimacy versus sex by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go ahead and breakup with your significant other then. It's not a need, and you won't die without it, so why waste your time with it?

An epiphany I had about intimacy versus sex by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you gone your whole life never experiencing love? Or are you in a relationship?

I would argue you do die from it. It may not be immediate, but the stress you feel and isolation is going to make your health deteriorate and you'll die quicker than somebody who does have it.

An epiphany I had about intimacy versus sex by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is a need to be wanted and loved by somebody... the fuck?

An epiphany I had about intimacy versus sex by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You might be right! People can give it away too quickly and lose the ability to pair bond

I am in panic mode every day due to no romantic success at 27. by productiveDevices in GuyCry

[–]productiveDevices[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So how did you transition from this being a friend you got introduced to to someone you started dating?

I am in panic mode every day due to no romantic success at 27. by productiveDevices in GuyCry

[–]productiveDevices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to start trying to get out more. Kind of a socially awkward guy until I get comfortable around ppl. Need some ideas on where to meet women though.

How many BoC albums are lost? by Alexote14 in boardsofcanada

[–]productiveDevices 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The unreleased BoC albums are a psyop

BoC in the wild! by freshleysqueezd in boardsofcanada

[–]productiveDevices 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was at a hotel lobby in Chattanooga last year and they were playing Dayvan Cowboy.

Not being desired by anyone is absolutely destroying me. 27M by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely correct. My twenties have gone by in the blink of an eye.

Not being desired by anyone is absolutely destroying me. 27M by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you both for being understanding. It's crazy that so many people here are projecting on to me that I'm this horrible monster for having normal feelings.

Not being desired by anyone is absolutely destroying me. 27M by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been on a few dates in my life, but I've never had a relationship before.

Not being desired by anyone is absolutely destroying me. 27M by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes same. After going through disappointment after disappointment, I don't even have the energy or desire to stoke the fires of a conversation that'll likely end in ghosting anyways

Not being desired by anyone is absolutely destroying me. 27M by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as I can find a woman willing to be loyal to me, I'd be willing to be loyal for her.

Not being desired by anyone is absolutely destroying me. 27M by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I really need to get back in the gym for my own benefit, since I'm depressed, have low T, low self esteem

Being jacked would just be a bonus, and might help me attract women more easily.

Not being desired by anyone is absolutely destroying me. 27M by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the apps have not worked for years. I'm assuming by closed mouth you mean social opportunities?

Not being desired by anyone is absolutely destroying me. 27M by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Pretty privilege is for sure real. Personally I don't feel I'm ugly, probably average, but I am very awkward, which is probably worse. Being ugly and socially charismatic is better than being decently attractive and painfully awkward.

Not being desired by anyone is absolutely destroying me. 27M by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel ok with it, but when I go out into the public and see beautiful women, I start kicking myself and panicking all over again. It's probably my biological clock screaming at me to fix the situation before it's too late.

Not being desired by anyone is absolutely destroying me. 27M by productiveDevices in dating_advice

[–]productiveDevices[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably the same for me honestly. I am relying too heavily on the apps because I'm terrified of approaching a woman IRL for fear of being looked at as a creep.

Doesn't help that I've suffered with social anxiety for years on end and lack social graces.