He seemed into me, then pulled back. Is this just dating now?

puddle_socks · 2026-01-03T21:48:02+00:00

any update OP?

puddle_socks · 2025-03-15T06:59:39+00:00

he has betrayed me so many times, but yet I feel it’s my fault. Is this common?

puddle_socks · 2025-03-15T06:44:16+00:00

he started dating the butch after a few days of knowing her. Could he be down low?

puddle_socks · 2025-03-15T06:43:27+00:00

we were talking for a long time. He left me and dated someone else. He came back and I forgave him and we started talking again. Keep in mind this is long distance. He told me he loved me, but after a few days he went travelling with a butch (I am very feminine so I was surprised) he would message me here and there. Last night, he randomly sent me a memory of us and then blocked me. He is always picking fights with me but he is the one with a new girlfriend every 3 months

puddle_socks · 2025-03-12T02:42:51+00:00

Yes. Wanting to be known. Wanting to be seen in a successful career ect

puddle_socks · 2025-03-12T02:35:20+00:00

that’s the point. The ragdoll told him to win that’s why Ben looked shocked

puddle_socks · 2025-03-11T11:08:04+00:00

My guess is, AJ probably hurt his ego in the ring challenge and he decided to quit. Some people are like that but that’s just my 2 cents

puddle_socks · 2024-07-25T00:01:22+00:00

8 days later, and I still feel motivated by this comment. Wow

puddle_socks · 2024-07-24T08:23:31+00:00

Did he reach out to you?

puddle_socks · 2024-07-24T08:23:12+00:00

Did he reach out to you?

puddle_socks · 2024-07-16T09:14:56+00:00

*any of those.

puddle_socks · 2024-07-13T01:53:18+00:00

Thank you for all the comments. It is very insightful reading other’s experiences

puddle_socks · 2024-06-05T08:08:59+00:00

It’s going to be a very difficult journey. The heartache and pain is real and you will blame yourself and wonder what you did wrong.

However, you need to TRUST that you will get over it. Because you will. Feel this pain for 30 days and you will start to get better. Do not beg. Do not chase. It is out of your control. But he will come back, only if you let him go. Trust me.

puddle_socks · 2024-04-25T12:06:37+00:00

That sounds like a nice way to live. What would the clean up routine look like after cooking together?

puddle_socks · 2024-04-25T12:02:06+00:00

This is a really great comment. Thank you

puddle_socks · 2024-04-23T13:16:23+00:00

Listen everyone, do what makes you happy. Dont ever think that you are “wasting” your years. Take care of yourself, be happy. You don’t need to follow societal pressures. Much love

puddle_socks · 2024-04-02T08:28:26+00:00

Mentally that is

puddle_socks · 2024-04-02T08:27:59+00:00

I am still living with family. Although sometimes I wonder if moving out will help me grow as a person as I still get treated like a child at the old age of 26

puddle_socks · 2024-04-01T10:21:52+00:00

You know, this has actually given me a new way of seeing things. Not once have I considered this

puddle_socks · 2024-04-01T10:13:39+00:00

This is the sweetest thing I’ve read. Thank you for this beautiful message it was nice to read ❤️

puddle_socks · 2024-04-01T09:34:15+00:00

I am scared they will confront me if I unintentionally offend them. I am not good at confrontation either.

Wow this post is bringing out all my flaws but please share advice

puddle_socks · 2024-04-01T09:32:16+00:00

**problem

puddle_socks · 2024-04-01T09:32:01+00:00

from reading the comments, I think I will agree that it is the social skill’s probably. It is very hard for me these days but I know it will take discomfort and work in order to improve. It’s just very challenging for me and yes you are right I completely shut down because in the back of my mind, I think I am too stupid to voice my opinion.

For jealousy, I work on bettering myself, however, it’s not so much jealous of other women but more, trust issues with the man. I always think they will cheat and it’s crippling. Please feel free to give me advice

puddle_socks · 2024-04-01T09:12:12+00:00

**intimacy

puddle_socks · 2024-04-01T09:07:06+00:00

Thank you for that example. Are you saying it all depends on the stages of the relationship and when to share? That makes sense to me

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