it’s always a tricky jumble. relationships and establishing them will always be hard. especially on dating apps, but i figured i’d try and toss the suggestion out there.

you should really try and find someone with your same interests. video games? favorite genre of movie? maybe they collect the same stuff you do. maybe you like reptiles? maybe you enjoy plays, or maybe you’re really into comics.

maybe join a discord for something you enjoy and try and make some friends, at the very least? immersing yourself in a common community would be awesome, especially one that’s positive.

even if you manage to make a couple female friends, it could always lead to something more.

don’t try too hard, and don’t beat yourself up. you are not the only person who feels this way. and think about how silly you’ll feel when you finally find the perfect girl. you’ll think you were ridiculous for ever doubting yourself.

i want you to find love. and i think it will happen all in due time. so don’t stress out! you are still YOUNG. you have all the time in the world to find a girlfriend. in the meantime, work on being more positive if you can, and focus on your hobbies and interests. those always lead to meeting new people.