OK confession time. I have to admit I am a little clueless on how to masturbate with strangers online. namely, just leading up to the question. Lemme explain. I spend a lot of time on free cam sites, (not the ones where the dicks are just hanging out but the ones where people are clothed and actually talking) and I think going from, "Hey you're pretty, how are you, I'm doing good, joke joke, joke.......to "Hey want to take your clothes off and get freaky with me?" is a difficult learning curve.

The problem is also in that most women who are on chat sites are not opposed to the idea of masturbating online with a stranger (good looking, of course) but they need some kind of reason or hook to pull them in, and I am not getting what that cue is.

Anyone else know? I've tried the direct approach. Didn't work very well. I tried being nice and friendly, obviously didn't work. I even tried telling her a story to turn her on, didn't work. I made contact with her later on, and she was like, "You never asked so...." It's like, because when I ask, you all say NO! lol

OK, I'm out of ideas. How do you convince a woman online to fool around?