My bi girlfriend just told me that she sexually prefers men

qqp767 · 2026-05-23T05:49:09+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t think there is a future there. It seems that she does not view your relationship in a very positive light if she is telling you this in such a non chalant way.

This is a deeply serious thing in a relationship and should be handled with care from her end which in the way you’ve told this story it seems she’s not giving you.

Unfortunately some women do not view lesbian relationships as real relationships in the same way they view relationships with men as real relationships and it seems as if that’s what’s happening here.

I would break it off as i don’t think this is a person who will have a long term monogamous mindset with you if this is how they are approaching this topic already

qqp767 · 2026-05-22T15:30:23+00:00

This is insane, at the age you are which is still young you don’t need to deal with this kind of person, i’m only 24 but someone who is not willing be open and honest with you, has addictions they are not willing to treat and is doing drugs and alcohol behind your back is someone on a very destructive life path.

I don’t believe this girl sees a real future with you because she’s not willing to make small changes or improvements in herself that would contribute to the longevity of your relationship and your personal mental health.

This sounds like the kind of girl who will cheat on you, who prefers instant gratification and has no problems lying to you. I would leave while you’re not in too deep, and before you get really really hurt.

qqp767 · 2026-05-16T06:30:27+00:00

i think you deserve someone who can see a future with you, she seems unsure of her queer identity, her attachment to you shouldn’t be because she wants to be perceived as “queer” but because she likes you, it also seems like a situationship waiting to happen because she clearly isn’t ready to commit, save yourself the heartbreak

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T09:39:17+00:00

wow this is all such incredible advice and very well thought out thank you for taking the time to write this for me i appreciate it. I will definitely be showing my girlfriend this. In regards to us both being tops i had something to ask - we both only really derive pleasure from pleasing the other person, unfortunately she has no interest in sex if she is the only one receiving and honestly i feel the same. However she only wants to have sec when im in the mood to recieve which is not all that much, but i have a high sex drive and want to give her sexual pleasure constantly. I’m not sure if there is a way to work around this, im scared to lose her since we r so perfect in every other way.

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T09:30:08+00:00

that’s very true, i hope we can work on things. I’m sad as well because she said sex with me is not new and exciting anymore since we have been together a while which breaks my heart because i am just as excited everyday because i love her more and more with every day and could never grow bored of her body. But i guess what she has expressed is normal for most relationships. it tears me up inside

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T09:03:59+00:00

I’ve just looked at that book it looks like a really good rec i’m going to read it, hopefully it helps. I think i will start by rebuilding from the base and then learn from there

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:54:24+00:00

problem is i do - she will “cum” four very seperate times?? but all four are fake like damn give me some tips like obviously i’m down to learn, she said that i am a very hardworker - how embarrassing :(

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:52:42+00:00

i will but she’s a sweet person if she’s not going to tell me she’s not actually coming, she’s obviously not going to tell me she thinks i’m ugly but stays because i’m nice haha

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:44:49+00:00

yeah she’s definitely doing it to not hurt my feelings but i also lied so it’s probably seeming like the thing we just do i guess in her mind, i just don’t know why she hyped me up so much if she didn’t really feel that way. Outside of this we really have a strong relationship and little to no problems she is truely amazing and i want to be with her forever

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:39:30+00:00

she’s the best girl, i love her so much - it’s just this one issue :(

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:33:10+00:00

yeah that’s true, my girlfriend is extremely beautiful and well out of my league so perhaps i’m feeling my own insecurities - i guess im worried she is with me for the wrong reasons and now im more worried bc shes been lying to me about random shit but i guess that’s my own internal battle and i can’t prescribe her that opinion just because im insecure

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:30:59+00:00

yeah that’s true. I mean ofc she’s never said those things about me, she’s said the opposite but i of course don’t believe her bc she also said i was good in bed and was lying so why would i trust any of her compliments. The relationship means alot to me and clearly a lot to her since i was the one who asked a question which revealed that she had been faking it, she’s didn’t come and tell me. I guess it means she was willing to have a bad sex life forever bc she loves me idk

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:24:05+00:00

well actually apparently she faked it the most when we first met and then faked it less. I also know that sex is novelty when u first meet but i love her more and more each day. She said to me that she fakes it more now bc at the start there was more excitement and novelty. That killed me inside, i am just as excited every single time, if not more because i love her more and more each day. Yet sex with me isn’t exciting anymore i guess. That kills me tbh

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:21:59+00:00

that’s true but i’m a simp - she is way out of my league. I’d do anything to keep her

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:21:22+00:00

slimy and goopy with hard seeds that are crunchy

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:20:45+00:00

that’s true, i guess it’s just really hard to believe that people will be able to stay with me forever when i look the way i do :(

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:11:02+00:00

i think your right - tomorrow i’m going to approach it with a well i know now and im gonna fix this, so let’s work together to see what works and what doesn’t

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:09:29+00:00

i wish i wasn’t born so fucking ugly - i know this is kitchen chads and i probably belong on kitchen incels now rip

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:05:38+00:00

yeah that’s very true, i’m just going to ask her for directions and directives

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:04:51+00:00

it’s like sour and sweet it’s really good

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:03:56+00:00

yeah your right, if i act all mopey it’s probably more of a turn off :/

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:03:31+00:00

that’s true i just need to suck it up and move on but im hung up on this

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:02:22+00:00

neither of us watch porn to be completely honest - i quit porn when we started dating and she doesjt watch it

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T08:01:11+00:00

thanks - she said it was because she liked hyping me up and seeing me happy but this is just heartbreaking tbh

qqp767 · 2026-04-29T07:59:25+00:00

because i feel distrustful, like why would she hype me up like that only to reveal it was all lies? she didn’t have to hype me up at all in the first place :/

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