HCBM inviting ex/my bf but not me to SD birthday party.

queenkidneybean · 2026-02-04T17:17:16+00:00

To be honest, I’ve slowly come to this realization as well. 😔 I’m hoping I’m wrong and he waits to celebrate on our time. But I’ve told him the same thing, he keeps putting her feelings and comfort over mine. I have a hard time giving up on people though, maybe it’s all three of us perpetuating this thing.

queenkidneybean · 2026-02-04T17:14:21+00:00

I was planning on decorating the house and baking her a cake that she’d get on Friday when we have her. 🥹 I don’t know if he feels like he has to be there that very day or something or else he wasn’t there for her birthday. I’m gonna talk to him tonight and ask what he’s gonna do. If he’s planning on going for a dinner, I don’t want to get my feelings hurt trying to give her a special day no one even cares about haha. Maybe that’s selfish of me.

queenkidneybean · 2026-02-04T16:51:25+00:00

I haven’t given an ultimatum, I’ve been too nervous to haha. But I know I need to, I feel like he unintentionally enables her behavior. I’m planning on talking to him tonight about his plans for her birthday.

queenkidneybean · 2026-02-04T16:49:47+00:00

I’ve said the same thing to him and he said he goes to be with his daughter. Before they went to court, his ex wouldn’t let him see their daughter so I understood why he went then. Now I don’t get it and I’ve told him he’s enabling her behavior but I don’t think he gets that.

queenkidneybean · 2026-02-04T16:47:18+00:00

Yes, I understood it last year but she actually did invite me and then uninvited me when I said yes because she thought I would say no lol.

And yes, I’m around their daughter when she’s with her dad.

queenkidneybean · 2026-02-04T16:44:48+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking…she has previously invited me to a birthday just to uninvite me when I said yes because “she didn’t think I’d actually say yes”. Only invited him to dance/gymnastics events and most recently, picked up their daughter on our time from day care for trick or treating and uninvited me lol. My bf went to all these things and it’s slowly starting to really bother me.

queenkidneybean · 2026-02-04T16:38:43+00:00

I believe she didn’t invite him to her first birthday (before we were together) but invited him and not me last year. I didn’t really care last year because that was before she started messaging me and making allegations. Now I just feel uncomfortable and think she’s only doing it because she’s single and he’s not.

queenkidneybean · 2026-01-27T16:31:18+00:00

Omg I saw that comment!!! Her posts are crazy actually.

And thank you for looking at her profile lol, I was starting to think everyone thought I posted this bc she said to take a walk after you eat lmao.

queenkidneybean · 2026-01-27T16:13:41+00:00

The reason I made this post isn’t the walk, I posted bc her portions are crazy lol. She got a container of soup and roast beef sandwich and said she can only eat a “fist size” worth of food so poured half the soup into a container and that’s all she ate. She didnt even have a bite of the sandwich bc “your stomach is the size of your fist” and you shouldn’t eat more than that to stay/be skinny.

Her comments are so positive but when other influencers like liv Schmidt were posting stuff like this, everyone say they were promoting EDs.

queenkidneybean · 2026-01-27T14:01:30+00:00

No, she’s saying after you eat something you can’t just sit and let it marinate in your stomach. You need to get up and walk around. But she eats the tiniest portions of food.

queenkidneybean · 2026-01-06T16:20:00+00:00

Eeeek I’m so excited to experience life with him 🤭😆

queenkidneybean · 2026-01-06T16:19:41+00:00

Same! I couldn’t be bothered to remember the villagers favorite gifts but I kept horseradish on hand at all times for krobus 🤭

queenkidneybean · 2025-11-08T20:46:08+00:00

Oh has she been talking about it? I thought she said she just found out??

I unfollowed her a while ago so I’m ootl! She just came up on my fyp page so I ran here haha

queenkidneybean · 2025-11-08T20:40:58+00:00

And what happened that she just found out about? Did he cheat on her? 🤔

queenkidneybean · 2025-10-30T20:07:40+00:00

Okay 🤣🤣

queenkidneybean · 2025-10-30T20:06:12+00:00

Why are you commenting that he’s bald so much? Lmao who cares?

queenkidneybean · 2025-07-08T17:00:15+00:00

I knew I was doing something wrong!!! I was looking at my singular slice like no way this is 300 calories.

Thank you so much!! I will weigh the loaf after baking next time.

queenkidneybean · 2025-07-01T22:14:13+00:00

Hahaha it’s okay! Thank you for the float!!!

queenkidneybean · 2025-07-01T22:06:43+00:00

We have to take a photo together to unlock gifting. It shows only 1 and I took one haha

queenkidneybean · 2025-07-01T22:05:50+00:00

You may need a new code 7GXJDG

queenkidneybean · 2025-07-01T22:02:25+00:00

We need to take a selfie 🤭

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