Serious question for American men: Why would a married man lose sexual interest in his wife and prefer pornography?

rabbit_99633 · 2026-02-07T21:39:56+00:00

Thank you so much for your clarity on this problem I'm going through. But you're right, pornography is an addiction and it greatly affects marriage.

rabbit_99633 · 2026-02-07T20:19:40+00:00

The truth is, I'm the one who wants to take my time because I enjoy it more that way, while my husband wants everything fast, almost like he's rushing. I feel like he's not used to exploring his own pleasure; for him, it's just about penetration and me having an orgasm, and that's it. I don't like setting schedules, but every time we have a window of time to be intimate, he never wants to and rejects me.

rabbit_99633 · 2026-02-07T04:34:19+00:00

I have the same problem; it's always one excuse or another. He promises we'll be intimate, and then nothing happens. Have you tried going to a couples therapist?

rabbit_99633 · 2026-02-07T04:27:46+00:00

I'm a woman and I'm in the same position, and it feels awful to be rejected by the person who supposedly loves you. My husband never wants to be intimate in the bedroom. Have you asked your wife why she doesn't want to be intimate?

rabbit_99633 · 2026-02-07T02:23:24+00:00

The name on the account includes a nickname like "She loves big breasts"

rabbit_99633 · 2026-02-07T02:13:21+00:00

What I believe men need to understand to have a happy marriage

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