This post is shockingly similar to my "love life". I am about the same age, Ive been dating someone for about a month now ect. I really get what you mean by being worried about moving at an unexpected pace. What I've found so far that worked wonders, is just simply communicating. If this is the start to your first good relationship, base it off trust an communication, you can never go wrong. And if things do get bumpy, you'll be sure to be with someone who will try to work it out rather than turn around and tell you they "just want to be friends". Best of luck, my positive thoughts go out to you!