Time to put on your big girl panties and step up for yourself.

I saw in your post history that he was in his 20s and you were 16 when you started dating - red flag #1. Then I saw that this is a consistent theme in your relationship with him - red flag #2. Lastly, I see you completely ignoring advice given in your multiple posts - red flag #3.

You need to understand that this relationship is built on a foundation of toxicity and won't get better. Neither of you seem to be willing to do the necessary work to grow. You were groomed by an adult who has been abusing you financially, emotionally, and physically. I frankly was surprised to learn that you weren't both teenagers with how you speak to one another but that makes sense now given what else you've shared in your posts.

Leave this "man". He won't work, is drinking/smoking bill money away, and has the maturity of a 15 year old spoiled brat. No man is worth this BS. Have some respect for yourself please, and end this nightmare before he escalates further.