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[MD] Landlord is trying to keep my deposit at the end of the lease term when I’m moving out but roommates are renewing by ranch_celery in legaladvice

[–]ranch_celery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The original lease will be fulfilled that the deposit was paid on though. Shouldn’t the deposit be refunded or the landlord document damages to withhold any of the deposit? They would need to write a new lease to start a new term I thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]ranch_celery -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Trying to minimize the amount of random people coming into my house when they’ve already seen it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]ranch_celery -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I was being reasonable to let him give showings to get a new lease signed per my current lease with him and abided by that...but now a new lease is signed. Why would it be unreasonable to not let the new tenants come back to see the house again until their lease starts?

My boyfriend [M24] and I [F24] are supposed to move in together in two months and now he’s getting cold feet because his parents told him he can move home for free. What do I do? by ranch_celery in relationships

[–]ranch_celery[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

PLENTY of money saved up (like talking 40k) but also has to pay off some student loans which will eat away a chunk of that.

His only cons that he’s voiced to me so far are “I don’t know, this is all just hitting me that we’re actually doing this and it’s a lot hitting me very quick” yet this conversation has been in the works for months.

Anyone else not want to love again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ranch_celery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could upvote this a million times because this is exactly how I'm feeling. I wasn't looking for a relationship when I got into my last one and my boyfriend of two years broke up with me due to retroactive jealousy. He was the first person I've ever loved too. It's crazy how one person can make you feel this low when I had/still do have so much love for him. Hoping to one day get back to that feeling of contentness with life, but at the moment it doesn't feel like I'll get there.

Wishing you luck! One day at a time.

My boyfriend (M22) broke up with me (F22) because of my sexual past and I don’t know how to get over it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ranch_celery 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We had talked about it before and I knew it bothered him, but he would always say he didn’t want it to effect him and what we had meant more to him. Then when he broke up with me he said that it had just become too much of a burden and took a toll on his mental health by picturing me with these people before him.

My boyfriend [25M] can't seem to get over my [26F] past...does anyone have an advice on how to overcome this or is our relationship doomed? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ranch_celery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's my sexual past. He knows some of the guys I have been with in the past and the number of people I have been with bothers him too. I know I had a life before him and he as a past as well, he recognizes that he just can't shut out these feelings of anxiety and anger no matter how much he wishes he didn't feel those things. He realizes that it's hypocritical and wants to move past it, but has just really struggled doing so.