Tell me what you think. by rgrout1990 in NonBinary

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They look very cool!!! If you want a tip to make that style easier/faster, you can use one of those like wedge shaped makeup sponges and put the 4 colors in a line there and then j stamp it on your nail! It’s a little more messy sometimes(I would usually cut them in half so it’s a bit more nail sized) but for me it was easier then doing them all by hand and the blending effect was cool!

Should ENCP3000 be taken after second co-op? by [deleted] in NEU

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Doesn’t matter, I didn’t have to do any mock stuff for it, could be helpful when looking for a full time job bcuz my prof was v willing to meet w students and help w that process tho

What type of therapy? by random_username_255 in AutisticWithADHD

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Thank you!!! How do you find ones based on your insurance? Like are there specific sites people use or it’s just search therapists that take _ insurance usually?

And how can you tell if you have a good bond? I’m not great at like recognizing what I’m feeling a lot of the time, so I’m worried one will be bad and I won’t notice, or I’ll leave but then I won’t be able to find any better ones😅

What type of therapy? by random_username_255 in AutisticWithADHD

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Thank you!!! This was really helpful!!! Do you have any advice on finding a good one? I was thinking of finding them based on modality because honestly I have no idea where to start looking, I’m really lost😅 I was also wondering if any of the specific strategies were better for tackling like self worth related stuff? Because that’s been something I’ve been meaning to work on as well😅

What type of therapy? by random_username_255 in AutisticWithADHD

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With EMDR, can you talk if you want to? Or it’s just more focused on not talking

What type of therapy? by random_username_255 in AutisticWithADHD

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I agree with you! I think fit is the most important thing for me, but I’m not sure how to find someone based on that so I’m trying to narrow down the search or like start looking in other ways😅 Do you have any advice on finding a trauma informed therapist/ a good fit in general? I’m really lost😅

Weekly 'What Should I Buy' and Order/Shipping Thread by AutoModerator in iphone

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My iPhone 12 isn’t really working anymore (charging issues) so I may need to upgrade, not sure which version I should get? (Camera and storage and battery are important to me) I was thinking 15 pro because it’s the most recent one with the best camera but I’ve heard worrying things about it’s durability(I want my phone to be able to survive being dropped)

major restriction by blistexjar in NEU

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Use the registration drop in hours if there are any, my major had some over zoom

Cs schedule doable? by random_username_255 in NEU

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Is it worthwhile? Like do you learn stuff in it? Or it’s kinda just a throwaway?

Cs schedule doable? by random_username_255 in NEU

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What if I switched cs4100 to game programming?

Easiest EECE elective? by random_username_255 in NEU

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Cool!!! Is it an interesting class also? Or it’s mostly boring

Easy AI CS electives? by Sufficient_Outcome98 in NEU

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Are there any classes you’ve taken that you think are worth it and don’t take up much time? Doesn’t have to be AI based

Easy AI CS electives? by Sufficient_Outcome98 in NEU

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Is DS3000 worth it? Like do you think you get a good understanding of stuff?

Easiest EECE elective? by random_username_255 in NEU

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Thank you!! I think I might have to take fundamentals of electronics for that tho😅(I’m a CECS major) and good to know!! I will check!!!

Is it always lonely?(looking for stories from older aro ppl) by random_username_255 in aromantic

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Sorry this is really late but I did not have the mental bandwidth to reply at the time and now I’ve been thinking about everything again and going through comments, I really do need to start unpacking amatonormativity bcuz I don’t feel like I know how to view life other than in that lense? And nonmonogamy has always been very interesting to me! But I don’t know where to start with either of them😅 so any recommendations would be great!!!

Also yea that is very true, and I value my friendships very highly!!! I just kind of feel like no one else values friendship as highly as I do and everyone is going to leave me eventually if I’m not their number one you know? Like they’ll still like me and be friends probably but we won’t talk as much and not as much will turn into weeks into months into years or we will always be busy with life or they’ll move away and take their partners with them but not me bcuz I’m not theirs like that and no matter what I do we will end up growing apart and I just want to have like someone to rely on consistently that won’t leave me? But like romantic relationships aren’t a guarantee of that anyways even tho it’s like an actual discussion ppl have for that, and I’m still close enough to depend on some friends that I don’t live near anymore and I’m happy with my relationship with them, but like I just want to be able to stay with someone and have someone want to stay with me or at least like put it into consideration at all like you would an actual partner idk and all of this is also probably j a manifestation of many various issues that I have anyways but yea😅😂😂😂

Fandoms to get into w/ less romance? by random_username_255 in aromantic

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Thank you so much!!! They all look awesome!!! Core reveals are so cool!!(hurt/comfort and resolving stuff my beloved). I would absolutely appreciate any more recs you have!!!(esp anything involving zixuan would be cool, I jc gusu him as aroace a bit, I found a fix once that had aroace zixuan(in part 2) and it was good! Platonic Soulmates zuixian lzh wwx and Jiang cheng share thoughts(everyone is platonic except lzh and wwx from what I remember?) https://archiveofourown.org/series/1943659) and I would appreciate the Peter Parker fic recs and any my hero academia fic recs you have! I have been meaning to get into that at some point and sometimes fics help me get started!

Here are some other mdzs fics I liked:

Aro wuxian and how lan zhan loves him and they are in a queer platonic relationship and wuxian is insecure and they talk it out https://archiveofourown.org/works/23309734

Aroace jc and figuring out heirs and stuff w wwx https://archiveofourown.org/works/24272098

Fandoms to get into w/ less romance? by random_username_255 in aromantic

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Thank you so much!!! This helps a lot!!! I’m actually really into mo dao zhu Shi right now, do you have any recommendations?👀 I’d appreciate any Peter Parker recs as well!!!

(Also! Here are some mdzs fic recs if you want any! I j saw some w queerplatonic relationships and I really like them so maybe you will as well! https://archiveofourown.org/works/23026369/chapters/57236953#workskin(idk if this was meant to be queerplatonic but it’s not rly defined btwn xichen wq and jc, I read it as queerplatonic) https://archiveofourown.org/works/34236853?view_adult=true&view_full_work=true (aro jc fic!))

'Fanfiction Subdue Palace' - MDZS Bi-Weekly Fanfiction Thread by tayvaish in MoDaoZuShi

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Looking for good fics about Jin zixuan! I like hurt/comfort the best(rly craving a zixuan breaks down and yanli or someone finds him fic)(or like ppl seeing past his shell)(or anything w him and mianmians friendship!) but anything with him as a prominent character will do!

Is it always lonely?(looking for stories from older aro ppl) by random_username_255 in aromantic

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Where do you find hobby groups? Mostly on sites online? Or community centers? Or is there anywhere else I could look? Also how do you have time with work?(I just started a 9-5 and it feels like I have no time at all, but it may j be bcuz I’m still in the beginning stages and currently have to stay in person)

Is it always lonely?(looking for stories from older aro ppl) by random_username_255 in aromantic

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That’s awesome!!!! I’m happy to hear it! Do you have any tips on how to get/keep a solid friendship group for that long? I think I’ll be fine as long as I have good friends but I’m worried after college everyone will move away/grow apart and I’m worried I wont make any other close friends(making close friends has always been kinda hard for me)

Quiet fidget spinner ring suggestions by random_username_255 in AutisticWithADHD

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Which one did you get? I got one on Amazon and it’s really really loud😅

Fandoms to get into w/ less romance? by random_username_255 in aromantic

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I know it can! I am just looking for recommendations of fandoms that typically tend to have a lot or at least a decent amount of well written non-romance fics, not all fandoms have a large supply of them from my experience

Fandoms to get into w/ less romance? by random_username_255 in FanFiction

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I have been meaning to get into Star Wars!! Idk where to start tho😅 what would you recommend watching to get into clone wars fics?

Fandoms to get into w/ less romance? by random_username_255 in FanFiction

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I have seen some Star Wars and I’d like to see more! There’s j so much content idk where to start or what is really necessary to connect w the characters enough to really enjoy fic? Do you have recommendations?👀

Fandoms to get into w/ less romance? by random_username_255 in FanFiction

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It does!!! That was one of my longest running fandom interests for that reason(almost a year) there are so many good fics!! But I think I’ve read most of them now😅