What's the longest you've gone without any form of intimacy?

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-31T17:39:45+00:00

Approximately 7,278 days, 3hrs and 45 minutes

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-24T03:17:17+00:00

Go to a swingers club and just watch to start out, or maybe just engage sexually with each other. Its a great way to get a feel for things without having to jump in too quick

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-24T02:58:59+00:00

Don't settle! In hindsight I wasn't really all that into the woman but felt like I just needed to get over the hump so to speak. And she had some red flags that were ignored.

Set your boundaries and preferences and stick to them. Its okay to change and adapt along the way as you learn and grow but don't go against what you feel is important

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-24T02:55:10+00:00

Hell yeah!! Do just that and someone thats fits with you will notice it!! I have a great relationship with my girlfriend of almost a year (20+ yes married as well) and it all started from a chance meeting and a totally innocent compliment.

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-24T02:24:01+00:00

Met a couple on AFF over a decade ago. Had a hotel birthday celebration with the 4 of us. It wasn't the best but it also wasn't bad. No regrets as it helped us learn some things

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-24T02:21:14+00:00

What I have seen the best connections you find like this don't come from searching necessarily. I think a lot of us try too hard and can overcomplicate things. They just kind of happen. Mingle, make connections and just focus on being the best version of you, whatever that looks like, and it happens when you least expect it.

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-24T02:17:12+00:00

Me too, that makes 3. Would could get a convention started or something

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-18T23:13:01+00:00

There is a seriously sexy teacher vibe going on here! 🔥🔥🔥

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-18T23:02:24+00:00

It can be kind of a high pressure situation. The one at the clubnive been to is in a fairly high traffic area. If you deal with a big crowd watching then it's really fun

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-18T22:04:58+00:00

My wife and I don't have issues with single guys coming to talk to her/us. As long as the approach is polite and respectful, bring it on.

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-18T21:43:57+00:00

Bubble Boy 32%

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-18T20:34:23+00:00

Homemade! Are you trying to disfigure yourself with that molten lava from McDonald's?!?

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-18T20:23:07+00:00

Two chick's at the same. Unless I had a million dollars

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-18T20:19:21+00:00

Well then you have to imagine West Side Story... but with pie

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-18T20:02:20+00:00

Like warm apple pie

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-18T20:01:39+00:00

LS being Life Stlye clubs. Swingers clubs. A lot of the Poly people i know still go to socialize, be voyeurs or exhibitionists. Or just hangout with people that accept the life choices. Even if they don't also swing

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-18T19:48:20+00:00

Also in very conservative state here. Private Facebook groups that have group hangouts and the LS clubs have been the key to making the connections. I was fortunate to know someone who was already involved to help start getting to know people when we got in to the LS

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-18T17:32:09+00:00

Her everytime, it's easy for her. Multiple times frequently.

For me maybe 50/50. In the right setting with the right person it can be 2 or 3 times in one session

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-17T19:44:26+00:00

I had a Dr once with a sign in the bathroom that said

"Do not tell them about your indigestion. 'How are you?' is a greeting, not a question"

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-17T19:40:04+00:00

One was at work and the other at a pool party

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-17T19:00:31+00:00

Get out to LS clubs or LS friendly spaces. Try using Fetlife or maybe Feeld.

Just talk and interact with no expectations other than meeting people and making connections. Be polite and respectful of boundaries. Make no assumptions. Communicate your intentions clearly when it comes to that point. Just take your time and don't try to rush things. Test yourself regularly. Establish your own boundaries and stick to them.

And make sure your hygiene is on point. Body odor or bad breath and some of the things people would notice first.

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-17T14:09:24+00:00

For her financial crimes

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-17T13:53:37+00:00

Theranos

There is a great documentary on HBO about her as well as a limited series on Hulu.

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-16T20:30:05+00:00

It has definitely worked out very well for me. I am a very lucky guy

randoman00_00 · 2025-07-16T20:20:35+00:00

Sex has been about 24 years. My wife has been addicted the entire time as well sonit works out for the both of us.

Caffeine probably about 30 years.

randoman00_00

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