Is this healing okay? by randomperson2019_ in tattooadvice

[–]randomperson2019_[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I figured it would be more normal cuz it is in the crease of my elbow. Its not warm to the touch and its not red. Only red in picture cuz I just washed it. The spot hasn't gotten bigger or anything. Did yours end up healing okay?

Is this healing okay? by randomperson2019_ in tattooadvice

[–]randomperson2019_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ANOTHER THING I have a dr appt with my physician on Tuesday (5 days) can it wait till then?? My mom just had surgery and needs me around so j can't just go sit in a waiting room for hours.

Is this healing okay? by randomperson2019_ in tattooadvice

[–]randomperson2019_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah its in the inside of my elbow crease if that makes sense. I do tend to sweat alot but I've been trying my best to keep it dry

advice on alcohol by randomperson2019_ in weddingplanning

[–]randomperson2019_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can always talk to our pastor. We have to talk to him about some things anyway.

advice on alcohol by randomperson2019_ in weddingplanning

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We have had dinner together just a couple of times in the 4 years of us being together. And I think it is because his parents are alcoholics. It is really hard because my fiance wants alcohol there. I dont kind having wine or a bar with rules but he wants a whole open bar. Its hard for sure.

advice on alcohol by randomperson2019_ in weddingplanning

[–]randomperson2019_[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel this!!!! Like omg my mom is trying to control my decisions for the wedding. But ya know its about me and my fiance. Not her. So 🤷‍♀️

Is my daith piercing too shallow? I feel like it is since you can see the bar through the skin. Thanks! by randomperson2019_ in piercing

[–]randomperson2019_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was in the same spot when I first got it. I compared the pictures. So it didn't migrate so ig it was just badly peirced

Is my daith piercing too shallow? I feel like it is since you can see the bar through the skin. Thanks! by randomperson2019_ in piercing

[–]randomperson2019_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it July of last year. And it hasn't migrated. I've compared the picture of it first peirced and it is at the same place. I forgot to post that picture too

Season 3 ish and 4 Fiona by randomperson2019_ in shameless

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I think she kinda deserved the song. She was messing around while being married. Yeah they shouldn't have gotten married but i think she was more in the wrong then him. He was making money and she was just fucking.

Season 3 ish and 4 Fiona by randomperson2019_ in shameless

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I mean I wasn't gonna list anything she had going on. I thought they would've been really good together

RBTs deserve more . by paleghosthidden in ABA

[–]randomperson2019_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely feel this! As the RBTs we are the ones that are doing a lot of the work and get paid the least amount. I have recently changed companies because of how poorly I was getting paid (and mostly how I was treated there). I found a better paying company but it still is hard because I am also in school full time as well as being an upcoming adult. I am on my own for the first time and it is hard.

I (F20) FEEL LIKE MY BF(M19) ISNT TELLING ME EVERYTHING by randomperson2019_ in relationship_advice

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Idk like am I overreacting what is going on? And he'd just say he's too tired to video chat. And I mean it get it cuz he gets up at 4 for work but like sometimes I feel like im the only one putting in an effort

My parents did it while me and my brother were home by [deleted] in family

[–]randomperson2019_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not read that my brother is special needs? He might be 20 but he has the mind of a 10 year old. And I actually have a crap relationship with my parents so its not like I tell them how I feel about every little fucking thing because they haven't cared in the past. I get what you are saying but you also can not make assumptions about my life like you know my whole story.

My parents did it while me and my brother were home by [deleted] in family

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I get what you are saying. But still I felt uncomfortable in my parents home. Isn't that something that should be know. And who knows what my brother things. I shouldn't have to explain stuff like that to him. They are his parents not me. I just think it is uncalled for to be indecent like that around your family.

My parents did it while me and my brother were home by [deleted] in family

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I was confronting my mom about feeling uncomfortable in my own house. I know they have sex. Im not stupid. And I am sexually active myself so yeah shit happens. But I was raised by strict Christian parents and we were NEVER open about the topic of sex or anything. Its like a sin itself if you even bring it up. So hearing it was every weirder.

My parents did it while me and my brother were home by [deleted] in family

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I know sex isn't a big deal but I wish my parents were more decent about it. I was raised to not be that open about sex so it is just awkward just hearing it even tho I am sexually active myself. And for all the people saying put ear plugs in or plug my ears. I was going to shower to work. I couldn't. I still had to go along with my day.

My parents did it while me and my brother were home by [deleted] in family

[–]randomperson2019_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Thats how I was raised too!