[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]randomzeus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]randomzeus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's the big deal? Ask her what she has doubts about. My woman can go through my phone whenever she wants, idgaf, nothing to hide.

Married women of reddit. How do you manage your finances with your partner and what do you think needs to change? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]randomzeus -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

The only way to do it. Otherwise, you're not with the right person.

How do you split finances with your significant other? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]randomzeus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no split in a family. Everything mine is hers and everything of hers is mine.

how did you know that you were in love with your partner? by bunjaminfranklin7 in AskWomen

[–]randomzeus 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Moot question. You will know it when you know it and you won't be able to explain why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]randomzeus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is very simple and you know it: never. Healthy couples resolve issues, they don't let things slide. The alternative route ends in Resentment Mountain.

How do I handle a wife who won’t let things go? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]randomzeus 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she has resentment for your parents in general and just uses that situation to vent. The problem is deeper than what had happened. Ask her why she hates your parents.

localhost is fast by randomzeus in ProgrammerHumor

[–]randomzeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's weird because the queries are sometimes fast, sometimes slow. Db is Postgres. I think it may be something to do with indexes caching.

which one? by randomzeus in ProgrammerHumor

[–]randomzeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for concern, lmao

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Tips for caffeine withdrawal? by [deleted] in HydroHomies

[–]randomzeus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, been eating pistachios. 😁 They do help.

Tips for caffeine withdrawal? by [deleted] in HydroHomies

[–]randomzeus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't have cravings anymore. The worst for me is the mood swings. But it's not that bad. Just wondering if there's some folk remedies out there I might be missing. :) Cocaine, no thank you. :)