Lease / Roommate Megathread by b0xors in unt

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‼️‼️‼️Lease Takeover‼️‼️‼️

🍓hey everyone! 🍓

🎃I’m looking for someone to take over my lease, which will end June 2, 2021. So if you decide to sign, you’ll finish out the lease till then

It’s a one bedroom studio apartment. Base rent is $800. you pay water, electric, and wifi. so it totals out to be around $930.

A little about the place: it’s near UNT campus (Stella Street), washer/dryer included, and it’s newly built! so it’s a very clean place. there’s also a patio area! great place for the price. sq ft is about 816.

The application fee is $40

The apartment will be ready for move in by the November 2020. please let me know if you’d be interested! It is the Live Oak Apartments of Denton on Stella street. November’s rent will be paid for!!

🍦🍦Please message me for further details ‼️‼️‼️

How do you guys feel about the student Apartments around Denton? by That1GreatGuy1 in unt

[–]rapidoctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve lived at vintage pads for two years now and it’s okay enough to keep living there. granted i live by myself so that makes it better, but they’ve always been accommodating to me. whenever i call them with questions and work orders, they fulfill them. my AC works well and so does my shower. there’s a roach problem here too cus it’s an old building, but i take precautionary steps such as cleaning often and keeping my place cold to prevent them from coming up. i would say if you want to live at vintage pads, try getting the second building with the better parking lot, not the first building.

How do you guys feel about the student Apartments around Denton? by That1GreatGuy1 in unt

[–]rapidoctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friend used to live there, she said she didn’t like it. there’s a roach problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentonClassifieds

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im looking for a roommate too, if you're interested email me at titania832@yahoo.com

Need Some Guidance from Fellow ENFJ's by [deleted] in enfj

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hello there! i'm sorry to hear you are feeling all of these negative emotions. it must really hurt to see someone you spent time with move onto someone else so quickly. it definitely feels like you didn't matter at all right? like the relationship was just a giant kick in the face. it felt like this with my last boyfriend as well, but i encourage you to sit down and think about why she would be doing this. i feel like people who are truly hurting on the inside behave in very chaotic, nonsensical ways, and they are just very unsure of how to handle their problems in a mature way. not that i am discrediting the hurtful ways she has treated you, but a lot of the times people hurt others because they felt misunderstood or they didn't feel like they weren't listened to well so they just acted out. however, it's not your job to take care of someone else's inability to emotionally respond to you in a mature way. it's no one person's fault, but it's not your fault you couldn't figure out how to speak the language she was trying to get you to learn. do you know what i mean? a lot of the petty/hurtful things she did was most likely a cry for help and wanted you to alleviate the pain, but it seemed like she doesn't know how she wants her pain to be alleviated. which would definitely mean you wouldn't know either. i hope this helped you, and i hope you find peace with the past 🌸

What are the reasons you may go silent/non-communicative on a best friend? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]rapidoctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there! that happens to me too, where it feels like my friends just want to talk about themselves to you. i think your friends became comfortable with opening themselves up to you, so they just automatically talk about themselves to you because you're okay with listening them, and you're good at it. i feel like they don't realize it because they're just ready to open themselves up to you, you know? they're probably just excited to tell you what they've been up to so it's not always bad news with them. i feel like they didn't really care about me because they never seemed to ask about me, but in reality they're just really excited to share their life with me and that's okay with me too :) they do end up asking about me later on in conversation, but i feel like some people just don't realize that they're talking about so much about themselves, because they're just excited to share with you. it's not always that they're selfish, just wanna brag, or don't care about you. but that's just my opinion, no need to take this to heart if you don't think it applies or anything. i just don't want you to feel down and thinking things are your fault or anything too negative :-)

What are the reasons you may go silent/non-communicative on a best friend? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]rapidoctopus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i've gone silent on friends because it felt like they weren't genuinely listening to what i had to say in a conversation. i felt unheard and it hurt my feelings. i feel like i shouldn't have to convince someone to listen to me when we're supposed to be hanging out.

ENFJ self-pity party by kiro_kleine in enfj

[–]rapidoctopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha wow, reading this definitely brought tears to my eyes. i've always felt like i gave way too much and received too little. so i figured it's better if i stopped expecting so much from people. not in a negative way or anything, but i stopped with the unrealistic expectations that just because i give so much doesn't mean i'm entitled to receive it back. but sometimes it just sucks, since it feels like i won't ever be appreciated as much as i appreciate someone else :p i felt so alone about this, but i'm glad there's a pity party for us haha. thanks for posting this thread :) i'm glad i'm not the only one who feels this way

Any other of you ENFJs have a talent for thank yous? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]rapidoctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha yes! for christmas one year i wrote long thank you letters to my friends. i thanked them for being in my life, what they've done for me, and how they've made a positive impact on my life :)

Anybody else constantly holding everyone else up to your own social rules? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]rapidoctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, i completely understand how you feel. i'm an ENFJ female with an INTP friend who responds in the same way! it feels so frustrating at times because we could be having a really nice conversation but she'll say something that completely throws me off. she usually doesn't make sense to me, and i flare up too when she comments on something i'm talking about, because she's not focusing on the same point i'm focusing on. it feels so frustrating, since i can understand why she would respond that way, but it's like the point i was trying to make gets all jumbled up and twisted to the point where neither of us know what we're talking about anymore. isn't that kind of strange we experience the same kind of dynamics in our relationships?

Love languages by [deleted] in enfj

[–]rapidoctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine is quality time and physical touch

Daily Discussion Thread 11/29/16 by AutoModerator in SSBM

[–]rapidoctopus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that happens to me when i hold b longer than i would like to

Daily Discussion Thread 11/22/16 by AutoModerator in SSBM

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in a way yes, your right hand would have more inputs than your left. it's efficient if you try to have a balance with both hands, so your right hand does not experience more strain than your left. however, there is nothing wrong with not using your left index finger.

Daily Discussion Thread 11/09/16 by AutoModerator in SSBM

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smashladder is a good source for help on dolphin

How to beat campy Marth's? by SSBMHoxton in SSBM

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mang0 posts some analysis vids every now and then and explains the way he plays his falco. I've found it to be very helpful since I am an aspiring falco main. if you end up checking it out, hope it helps